How am i not suppose to??

[bdcrossley]

All I keep hearing is don't stress don't think about it...bla bla bla. How am I not suppose to when I get up every morning and that's the first thing on my mind? I take my temp, vitamins, poas, timing sex. I was told not to think about it and just let it happen>no offense to the ones saying this but how the heck are we suppose to do that?? When you cant help but let the tears fall when you see that brane new baby out and about.?? you cant help how you feel or what your brain thinks about!!
I try not to stress about it but it seems nearly impossible.

 

[purplecupcake]

I don't really have any advice, but I can tell you that there is some truth to what people say. It worked for me, at least. We had been trying, but the forced sex was awful and we were starting to argue about it. It made me feel so awful about myself and my relationship, so I decided to just take a couple months off of trying to make myself happy and let my marriage recover from the stress of TTC. And bam - BFP.

Try to just take a month or two to relax. See what happens. You never know!