MindUtopia
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With my first, I was self-employed, so I worked from home 100% of the time and could make my own schedule, so I had a lot more flexibility in my schedule and it was easy to plan around days when I felt particularly bad.
With my second pregnancy (which ended in mc at 11 weeks), I was working in my current position (it was only in the spring), but I hardly had any symptoms (I suspect because things weren't going well). I was tired, but it was fairly manageable, even with the early mornings and late nights. I leave at 5:45am and don't get home until at least 7pm 2-3 days a week. The other days I work from home 9-5.
But this time, I am definitely feeling it and the long hours and long commute are rough. I had a conference call at 9:30 this morning. Woke up feeling rough, managed to get down a coffee, perk myself up, only to call my colleague and she had to re-schedule to the afternoon. Which is great, because I'll feel better, but just the effort of trying to get myself to a state of functioning so I could get through the meeting...now I'm exhausted!
I'm definitely feeling it this time around in a way I didn't before because I was lucky to have such flexible hours. I still have pretty flexible hours and can work from home any day I like, except I can't do it every day, so I still have to travel into the office a few days a week and it's a long (3 hour) commute, which is why I leave so early and get home so late. Just really needed a rant! I know it will get better. I felt pretty great by 14 weeks with my daughter and had so much energy and actually got so much work done when I was pregnant (being self-employed then). It's just right now....ugh.
How are you all feeling?
With my second pregnancy (which ended in mc at 11 weeks), I was working in my current position (it was only in the spring), but I hardly had any symptoms (I suspect because things weren't going well). I was tired, but it was fairly manageable, even with the early mornings and late nights. I leave at 5:45am and don't get home until at least 7pm 2-3 days a week. The other days I work from home 9-5.
But this time, I am definitely feeling it and the long hours and long commute are rough. I had a conference call at 9:30 this morning. Woke up feeling rough, managed to get down a coffee, perk myself up, only to call my colleague and she had to re-schedule to the afternoon. Which is great, because I'll feel better, but just the effort of trying to get myself to a state of functioning so I could get through the meeting...now I'm exhausted!
I'm definitely feeling it this time around in a way I didn't before because I was lucky to have such flexible hours. I still have pretty flexible hours and can work from home any day I like, except I can't do it every day, so I still have to travel into the office a few days a week and it's a long (3 hour) commute, which is why I leave so early and get home so late. Just really needed a rant! I know it will get better. I felt pretty great by 14 weeks with my daughter and had so much energy and actually got so much work done when I was pregnant (being self-employed then). It's just right now....ugh.
How are you all feeling?