Probably was more of a ring, there were rumors years ago he tried it with his niece which is why he doesn't speak to his sister, and that band members wives banned him from around their kids. I don't know how true but if it is then his family and band mates knew a long time ago. Its also said the band scraped a whole album because Ian had referenced kids through out. If they did know the town called hypocrisy video was in seriously poor taste.