justmeinlove
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We're starting to (finally) consider ttc #2 in 2017. My daughter is 3 3/4 years so I feel like we need to get on or the age gap will seem too big. She's very keen on the idea at the moment and in part I am driven by the desire to give her a sibling because I never had and really wanted one as a child. Various health worries aside, my question is how people find having two children?
At the moment I can give her all my attention and love and it does make me very sad when I imagine not being able to do so. How do you feel your relationship with your eldest was affected by #2?
Hopefully we'll have nhs support to avoid the post natal depression of our first attempt, but all of that and two years of no sleep, makes it hard to look forward to this without a lot of anxiety creeping in (and that's aside from our ectopic in September. Argh!)
At the moment I can give her all my attention and love and it does make me very sad when I imagine not being able to do so. How do you feel your relationship with your eldest was affected by #2?
Hopefully we'll have nhs support to avoid the post natal depression of our first attempt, but all of that and two years of no sleep, makes it hard to look forward to this without a lot of anxiety creeping in (and that's aside from our ectopic in September. Argh!)