I know this is from Dec, but I thought I'd post anyways, if that's ok
Well, with #1--that was a surprise BFP--we'd been trying for several months, and my DH actually was out of town on a business trip. I had come home from work after a particularly crappy day, and was about to pour myself some wine
, when I thought "lemme POAS--either way, that'll maybe cheer me up...it's gonna be a BFN anyways..." and so I did my stuff and placed the test on a tissue on my bathroom counter...and went to get a bottle of vino, was about to pour...when the 2nd line showed up. To say I was shocked is a royal understatement. Literally 2 seconds later, my DH calls me just to say hello, and I blurt out "THE SECOND LINE SHOWED UP!!!!"....(silence)....and my DH says, "What 2nd line, babe...?" and I hollered "THE PREGNANCY TEST!!!
THE SECOND LINE!!!!!" I could hear the smile in his voice when he asked, all cute and school-boyish "You took a pregnancy test?
" and I said "yes
PAPA ."
The 2nd time, for some reason, HE knew before I did...maybe it was my behavior, maybe he just felt a 'vibe', but I had literally pushed out of my mind when my period was etc because after several months this time, I was getting obsessed (and
NO that is
NOT a negative dig at those who temp and chart--I am talking
solely about
MY OWN feelings and behavior)--so I just stopped keeping track, for my own sanity. One Saturday afternoon, my DH literally turns to me and says "Either YOU pee on a stick, or I'm gonna!!!"---and lo and behold, it was a BFP...he said later on he just 'had a feeling'....I sure didn't--I had hope, that's for certain, but to expect a BFP, heck no way.
When we successfully have our rainbow baby, I think this time I will do something cute to let him know
haven't figured out what that will be yet, but it will come to me when that day arrive
.
BIGHUGS to you!!!!