How do I only allow PM's from friends?

[chiapso]

I'm getting alot of hate IM's people saying I deserve a miscarriage and such, how do I not recieve these i'm on the edge and I can't stand to read it any more

 

[Kiki1993]

People can be so sick You did nothing to deserve a miscarriage! I don't understand how people can be so cruel! Not sure how to stop it but definitely report it

 

[Vickie]

Thread closed to prevent speculation and to prevent issues elsewhere being brought here.

Reported PMs will be (and are) looked into and dealt with though this is generally done behind the scenes

To allow only PM's from your contacts list (and administrators/moderators) go to your User CP, Edit Options on the left hand corner and scroll down. You will see an option under private messaging that says:

Receive Private Messages only from Contacts and Moderators

Check that box and save changes.

 

[Wobbles]

I have an issue with lies ... this being one of them!

Nobody said any such thing to you in PM and I have opened this thread back up again for you to explain to me why you would submit something like that on the public forum falsely?

I can only come up with attention seeking?

 

[Nade..Tadpole]

I dont know what has been said to you via PM.. obviously.. And if people have said that then it's VERY harsh :/
But find it upsetting that you've posted this after telling us young/teenage mums-to-be that we do not deserve our babies :/ After posting in another area that that we dont either :/

I'm sorry that you had a miscarriage.. and wish you luck in your journey to concieve again

 

[chiapso]

"Think you will find YOU dont deserve children!"

I also think you're a bad mod having reopened this thread as you knew more comments would push me over the edge if I had another comment about my MC so why did you have to do this?

 

[Wobbles]

Nobody said that to her ... (my post is above yours).

 

[Wobbles]

"Think you will find YOU dont deserve children!"

I also think you're a bad mod having reopened this thread as you knew more comments would push me over the edge if I had another comment about my MC so why did you have to do this?

I'm a bad mod

YOU LIED ... Why? Nobody NOBODY said such a thing. Why did you lie?

I'm really unsure what you mean by over the edge. I can't allow you to say false statements like that on the public forum when it's not true.

 

[chiapso]

She did say it, look again.

you're a bad mod because i've already admitted i'm on the edge and by probing me to answer instead of just leaveing it is making me more and more upset.

 

[Wobbles]

You told the member people don't deserve children you included and she COMFORTED you!

And sorry I know nothing of your personal situation but you agree to the TOS that you will not submit false information.

 

[chiapso]

I said "some" I did not pick anyone out.

Have you had enough of forcing me against the wall, what do you want? blood?

 

[Wobbles]

I didn't say you did but this is so so so wrong:

I'm getting alot of hate IM's people saying I deserve a miscarriage and such, how do I not recieve these i'm on the edge and I can't stand to read it any more

I can't believe anyone would say such horrible things were said about them when they hadn't.

To try and make me feel guilty for correcting this is selfish.

I am sorry you are having difficulty (I didn't know until you have stated in this thread) but you cannot go around saying this things falsely. LOTS and LOTS of girls on here who offer genuine support and comfort, you don't need to make these things up.

 

[chiapso]

I said nothing false, I wish for you to not comment any more on my situation.

 

[Wobbles]

Report the PM then that stated this and I will publicly apologise.

Like it or not if you lie on the forum I will comment but I am locking this whist I review your account. It's not acceptable.