How do I tell my parents I'm pregnant by a guy Im forbidden to talk too

[sarahann123]

I'm 15 years old, almost 16. A few months ago, I began talking to a half black guy, who has been in a juvenile detention center. Being white, and having racist parents, this did not go over well. I was forbidden to talk too him, once they found out he liked me as more than a friend. Going against my parents' wishes I continued to talk too him. Our relationship intensified. Just breaking up with my boyfriend of over one year, I was rebounding. He was new, and I liked it. My parents found out we continued to talk and I snuck around with him. I lied, saying I had not had sex with him. They grounded me. Yet I still continued to talk too him. Once again they found out and become stricter. I realize I have been stupid, and I wish more than anything I could take everything back. But I can't. So I must focus on the future, and taking responsibility for my actions. I haven't tested yet, but my period is two days late, and I have been peeing more than usual with sore breasts. How do I tell my parents if I am pregnant?
I love my parents, and the last thing I want to do is hurt them.

 

[lizmageeful]

First thing I would say is take a test ASAP. you can get them for pretty cheap at any drug store. Secondly, I didnt get the peeing a lot more and breast changes for at least a few weeks after I already knew I was pregnant. You could be psyching yourself into symptoms cause you're stressed about the possibility of it, which is another reason you should TEST. ASAP. Finally, If you find out you are forsure pregnant, just sit down you're parents and tell them. A lot of parents are a lot more receptive than you expect them to be, and the sooner you tell them the sooner they can get over their dissappointment/anger and love their grandchild. Also, make sure you tell the FOB sooner rather than later. Hope this helps.

 

[lil lovey]

Sorry you in this situation. I understand hurting them is the last thing you'd want to do to them. Tell you parents that you pregnant with someone(a friend,sister etc) so you'll have support with you there. Tell them sooner , so that they can take it in. Yes they might be disappointed and hurt but your their baby girl they love you. They'll be there to support you. good luck

 

[lizmageeful]

(Btw, if you ever need to talk feel free to PM me directly. )

 

[sarahann123]

Thank you so much!!!

 

[xVAP]

Firstly, you need to take a test - thats the only accurate way to tell if you're pregnant or not. Secondly, dont worry too much. Sore breasts can be caused by hormonal changes in your cycle. And a reason you could be peeing more could be cause your uterus is full of blood and swollen and pressing against your bladder cause your period is due.

Secondly, you need to tell your parents, you wont be able to hide it from them for long. The sooner they know the better, and it'll give them more time to adapt. You shouldn't have lied to them, you should've been honest about the sex. They're probably going to be upset about that too. I suggest you tell them without your FOB there, cause god knows how they would react towards him. Do you have an older sibling you can tell who can be there to support you whilst you're telling your parents? That's what I did. If not, maybe a close friend/family friend?

Good luck. And congratulations Your parents will come around.

 

[ClairAye]

Okay, first of you need to test, this will get locked as you don't know for a fact that you are pregnant.

You need to tell them ASAP (if you get a positive), the sooner the better and the longer they then have to come around to things

 

[aalz]

Listen, ik I'm saying different things to everyone else and it might be a good idea to let them warm up to the idea before your baby gets here (if u are pregnant. Stress can cause a late period. So if u were stressing even about falling pregnant, it might be why you're late)
But yeah ik my parents well enough to know that they're gonu force me into an A, sooo I've kinda decided to tell them after 22 weeks (or as close to that time as possible) as that is the latest u can legally get it done in my country.
Also listen, bcoz ure still 15 ur parents can lay charges against him (depending on where u live) for statutory. So u need to be very careful.
Good luck hun and I'm sorry
Let us know what happens okay?

 

[Tiff]

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