Just wondering how everyone else with previous losses is coping and how you manage to get through this worrying time?
I'm 8+2 with my 4th pregnancy, I've got a 2 year old DD and had two early losses either side of her. I paid for a private reassurance scan last week when I was 7+5 by my dates, which I'm really sure on due to charting and tracking ovulation. They found a baby with heartbeat but measured at 5-6 weeks, when I said that couldn't be right they took the measurements again a few times but best they got was 6+1. The scan wasn't reassuring at all, there was no explanation offered for why the dates may be so far off, the sonographer just kept saying everything is fine but I just ovulated and conceived two weeks later than I thought. This isn't possible as I haven't had sex since the day I know I conceived, and I got my BFP 9 days later, before she is saying I could've possibly conceived.
I've been going round in circles and passed from pillar to post in the last couple of days between my doctor, EPU, antenatal clinic and midwives, with everyone basically saying there is nothing they can do and I just have to wait for my 12 week scan which could still be over a month away.
I'm terrified of the idea of waiting that long and finding out just a couple of weeks before Christmas when we were planning to announce, that the baby actually died weeks ago. My DH wants us to book another private scan for next week, but it's quite a distance to travel to the nearest private clinics near us, and is obviously expensive especially just to find out it causes more worry than reassurance like this one has.
I'm 8+2 with my 4th pregnancy, I've got a 2 year old DD and had two early losses either side of her. I paid for a private reassurance scan last week when I was 7+5 by my dates, which I'm really sure on due to charting and tracking ovulation. They found a baby with heartbeat but measured at 5-6 weeks, when I said that couldn't be right they took the measurements again a few times but best they got was 6+1. The scan wasn't reassuring at all, there was no explanation offered for why the dates may be so far off, the sonographer just kept saying everything is fine but I just ovulated and conceived two weeks later than I thought. This isn't possible as I haven't had sex since the day I know I conceived, and I got my BFP 9 days later, before she is saying I could've possibly conceived.
I've been going round in circles and passed from pillar to post in the last couple of days between my doctor, EPU, antenatal clinic and midwives, with everyone basically saying there is nothing they can do and I just have to wait for my 12 week scan which could still be over a month away.
I'm terrified of the idea of waiting that long and finding out just a couple of weeks before Christmas when we were planning to announce, that the baby actually died weeks ago. My DH wants us to book another private scan for next week, but it's quite a distance to travel to the nearest private clinics near us, and is obviously expensive especially just to find out it causes more worry than reassurance like this one has.