Earthylove
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Hi everyone!
I get the feeling we all have very different approaches when it comes to discussing timelines/baby making/desires for a baby with our OH. I was just thinking the other day about how I approach my husband when it comes to ttc and I wonder sometimes if I need to start changing things up.
For example, i tend to not let on how desperately I want a baby. I don't cry about it in front of him or express sadness openly to him about having to wait..I am also verrry calculated in how and when i bring it up to him to have discussions. I think this has worked fine so far, but part of me wishes i were more open. like maybe he should know how deeply this affects me.
How do you guys approach your OH? are you very open with your thoughts and emotions? do you talk about it a lot or do you keep it to yourself?
I get the feeling we all have very different approaches when it comes to discussing timelines/baby making/desires for a baby with our OH. I was just thinking the other day about how I approach my husband when it comes to ttc and I wonder sometimes if I need to start changing things up.
For example, i tend to not let on how desperately I want a baby. I don't cry about it in front of him or express sadness openly to him about having to wait..I am also verrry calculated in how and when i bring it up to him to have discussions. I think this has worked fine so far, but part of me wishes i were more open. like maybe he should know how deeply this affects me.
How do you guys approach your OH? are you very open with your thoughts and emotions? do you talk about it a lot or do you keep it to yourself?