steffi2
Proud mom of 3 kids
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A friend of mine said, you'll just know. Well, I have never been so confused in my life. 2 months ago we were trying for number 4. My dh and I talked about how nice it would be for the baby to have a playmate a year or 2 younger than him.
However, this week some things have been bothering me such as:
a) Could we afford to send another child to school? Tuition for 4 is going to be tough and right now we can't even afford another car.
b) Our ages. My dh will be 48 and I will be 41 this year. Dh says he may be too old to be raising a baby at 49 or 50.
c) The risks. I am so scared of having a baby with health issues.
The last time I spoke to my OB she said if I wanted another baby I would have to try ASAP after our baby is 1 year old. All my kids are CS babies. Hubby refused to have my tubes tied since he said any form of contraception is against the Catholic church. He said that I have a hard time getting pregnant anyway...my kids are 4 to 5 years apart.
Oh, I don't know what to do. I actually told my dh, let's try for 6 months, if it doesn't happen, then I am okay with it. I just hope that in 2 to 4 years, we don't regret our decision.
So back to the question: How did you know you were done or what made you think otherwise?
However, this week some things have been bothering me such as:
a) Could we afford to send another child to school? Tuition for 4 is going to be tough and right now we can't even afford another car.
b) Our ages. My dh will be 48 and I will be 41 this year. Dh says he may be too old to be raising a baby at 49 or 50.
c) The risks. I am so scared of having a baby with health issues.
The last time I spoke to my OB she said if I wanted another baby I would have to try ASAP after our baby is 1 year old. All my kids are CS babies. Hubby refused to have my tubes tied since he said any form of contraception is against the Catholic church. He said that I have a hard time getting pregnant anyway...my kids are 4 to 5 years apart.
Oh, I don't know what to do. I actually told my dh, let's try for 6 months, if it doesn't happen, then I am okay with it. I just hope that in 2 to 4 years, we don't regret our decision.
So back to the question: How did you know you were done or what made you think otherwise?