I have two wonderful children one is 11 and one is 5. My husband and decided we wanted one more. I had two losses last year and am 5 weeks pregnant today. I have no idea how to stay calm. How do you tell yourself that things will be ok, when you just don't know? I had a horrible feeling I would lose my first, and I did. The second I didn't at first but as time went on I knew it would end also. This time I can't do anything but worry. Dr said he will do a scan between 6 and 7 weeks to put my mind at ease. But the closer I get to that the more I can't help but worry. I haven't told many people, just my husband and a few friends that will be my support if I do lose this one (my husband is deployed so I need someone.) How do you go about your day without worrying that this will end in pain too? Most of the people that I know that have had a miscarriage have only had one so they don't quite understand where I am emotionally.