Ro doesn't like his hair being washed as he's scared of the water going into his ears or eyes, but he'll tolerate it now as DH kneels next to the bath and lies him in his arms with his head over the bath, where I use the shower to wash his hair. It works fine as all LO has to do is lie fairly still in DH's arms. But he's getting too heavy for DH now. We tried getting him to stand and lean over the bath with with head down with either him or DH putting a hand shielding his eyes, but he just stands up as soon as I wet his hair. How do you wash you too-big-to-hold toddler's hair?