oxSarahxo
Angel Jessie,1M/C, Preg!
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Well, ever so preditable that I'd be posting here, but anyway...So.. questions...
I know you can get through loosing a baby. I don't want to forget her, just the pain to ease one day, I know it'll take time.
Don't take this the wrong way, I don't know how to word it, but I always wanted a baby, and there was always that void in my life, now without Jessica, the void is greater still... I don't want to replace her, but still want a baby... Not immediately though... Does this make sense?
My question...
After a C-Section, how long did you wait before trying again?
I know I need to make sure I'm fully healed myself, as if the womb tries to stretch too soon after being stitched up, it could perforate, and that's a risk I'm not willing to take. Me poor heart can't take it again lol (not after sympathy).
So, any advice really?
I know you can get through loosing a baby. I don't want to forget her, just the pain to ease one day, I know it'll take time.
Don't take this the wrong way, I don't know how to word it, but I always wanted a baby, and there was always that void in my life, now without Jessica, the void is greater still... I don't want to replace her, but still want a baby... Not immediately though... Does this make sense?
My question...
After a C-Section, how long did you wait before trying again?
I know I need to make sure I'm fully healed myself, as if the womb tries to stretch too soon after being stitched up, it could perforate, and that's a risk I'm not willing to take. Me poor heart can't take it again lol (not after sympathy).
So, any advice really?