how long did it take for your hormones to show negative

[Petzy]

Congrats fandabby really hope this one sticks!!

Charlie - sounds like u did well! Hope u caught it.

Petzy - I feel for you this wait is horrendous!

I am really struggling. I did a frer yesterday and ic with fmu. not even a hint of a line. I know I'm out. I'm so disappointed but I know it's silly as still haven't had first af. Well maybe next month will be the one, I got bfp with ds and last pregnancy on second month of trying so hoping.for the same again.

Lots of baby dust to everyone x

Tooty how many DPO are you now? 11? Im sorry you feel discouraged, completely understandable, I know that feeling all too well. But yes, do keep in mind you haven't had a proper AF yet. I didn't catch the egg before AF came either.. I don't think its THAT common. Maybe your second month luck will continue FX xx

 

[klsltsp]

congrats fandabby!!!

Tooty and qwk, sorry you guys are feeling down, the whole TTC journey is not one for the light of heart!! it is hard!! stay positive and keep trying

Petzy and Charlie good luck in the tww, looks like you both had some good coverage!! fingers crossed that you caught that egg!!

AFM more bloodwork tomorrow, really hoping that I am FINALLY at <5 although I am expecting a 10 or 11 ish number...

I'm hoping that in early January I can get the tests done that I need to and then get read to ttc!!!

Take care ladies

Kim

 

[qwk]

Thanks for the support ladies. Tooty I hope it's still just too early!!

Petzy - welcome to the party it's unbelievable how it drags!!!

I have been fighting the urge to test, ugh! Only 8 dpo. I want to wait til 11 dpo. My temp dipped a bit today, almost to cover line. I again am kicking mysf for not temping before we started ttc so I had something to compare to!

I would say I basically have no symptoms. Maybe a little nausea here and there but nothing to write home about. But I'm consoling myself with the fact that I had nothing until about 5 weeks with my son either. No sore boobs or anything. So.

3 days should not be so stressful to wait through, argh!

 

[Petzy]

Thanks for the support ladies. Tooty I hope it's still just too early!!

Petzy - welcome to the party it's unbelievable how it drags!!!

I have been fighting the urge to test, ugh! Only 8 dpo. I want to wait til 11 dpo. My temp dipped a bit today, almost to cover line. I again am kicking mysf for not temping before we started ttc so I had something to compare to!

I would say I basically have no symptoms. Maybe a little nausea here and there but nothing to write home about. But I'm consoling myself with the fact that I had nothing until about 5 weeks with my son either. No sore boobs or anything. So.

3 days should not be so stressful to wait through, argh!

You can do it! 3 days is not long! Hold strong lol

I didn't have any symptoms with my last BFP either... ZILCH! So I find it easier not to symptom spot at this point haha.. I know its hard though!

 

[fandabby]

Thanks Petzy, I'll be sticking around and hopefully see you all get your dream come true BFPs..

Tootyfruity - some women don't get positives until bang on due AF or after. Do you feel like something is going on and your test isn't picking it up? If not let's hope you follow your previous and catch 2nd month.

Good luck Kim with your bloodwork tomorrow, fingers crossed your levels are <5, now that would be excellent. You can get yourself sorted then and prepped for getting back to TTC.

qwk - stay positive and you never know... I didn't have sore boobs and still don't. Had slight cramping like AF was coming, slight bloat, nausea as you say on and off but nothing to say wow got ms cause I don't. Good luck with your wait, I admire you I couldn't hold back. Good luck and keep us posted.


Sending you all lots of magical

 

[tootyfruity]

Kim I hope your number are less than 5, it's so hard waiting for that negative and feeling in limbo!

Fandabby I know I shouldn't write it off yet, I just don't want disappointment.

Everyone is so lovely on this thread and it really does make me feel better having the support. Thanks ladies

 

[tootyfruity]

Petzy Yes I'm 11 or 12 dpo af should come around wed, just wish my boobs would stop hurting.
Hopefully this is your month too! X

 

[o0oCharlieo0o]

Fandabby!! HUGE Congrats I am so thrilled for you!! Maybe you are our good luck charm for Christmas hehe That is so great... FX for a sticky bean and H&H 9 months I hope you will keep us company! XO

QWK & Charlie - FX for you both in this 2ww! I am 3DPO today... time is ticking slow lol. I am going to wait to test until 11DPO on Xmas eve morning... I don't want to test earlier I will drive myself nuts. so I will get an FRER for that day I think. Ughhh seems like 10 years away right now lol

I will be testing xmas eve too as OH has to pop into work i figure if its pos i can give it to him as an xmas pressie xxx

 

[qwk]

thanks again kim, petzy and fandabby. it's been really hard not to test, and it's just going to get harder!! eeek!

It is really nice to see you ladies getting BFPs

 

[o0oCharlieo0o]

Awww hun its best not to test too soon, you can hold out im sure of it and i really hope when you do poas its a BFP for you xx

 

[Petzy]

Fandabby!! HUGE Congrats I am so thrilled for you!! Maybe you are our good luck charm for Christmas hehe That is so great... FX for a sticky bean and H&H 9 months I hope you will keep us company! XO

QWK & Charlie - FX for you both in this 2ww! I am 3DPO today... time is ticking slow lol. I am going to wait to test until 11DPO on Xmas eve morning... I don't want to test earlier I will drive myself nuts. so I will get an FRER for that day I think. Ughhh seems like 10 years away right now lol

I will be testing xmas eve too as OH has to pop into work i figure if its pos i can give it to him as an xmas pressie xxx

Whoop! Ok I will hold out till xmas eve if you do!

 

[o0oCharlieo0o]

Fandabby!! HUGE Congrats I am so thrilled for you!! Maybe you are our good luck charm for Christmas hehe That is so great... FX for a sticky bean and H&H 9 months I hope you will keep us company! XO

QWK & Charlie - FX for you both in this 2ww! I am 3DPO today... time is ticking slow lol. I am going to wait to test until 11DPO on Xmas eve morning... I don't want to test earlier I will drive myself nuts. so I will get an FRER for that day I think. Ughhh seems like 10 years away right now lol

I will be testing xmas eve too as OH has to pop into work i figure if its pos i can give it to him as an xmas pressie xxx

Whoop! Ok I will hold out till xmas eve if you do!

Haha i cant guarantee 100% but i will try my very best xx

 

[Petzy]

Fandabby!! HUGE Congrats I am so thrilled for you!! Maybe you are our good luck charm for Christmas hehe That is so great... FX for a sticky bean and H&H 9 months I hope you will keep us company! XO

QWK & Charlie - FX for you both in this 2ww! I am 3DPO today... time is ticking slow lol. I am going to wait to test until 11DPO on Xmas eve morning... I don't want to test earlier I will drive myself nuts. so I will get an FRER for that day I think. Ughhh seems like 10 years away right now lol

I will be testing xmas eve too as OH has to pop into work i figure if its pos i can give it to him as an xmas pressie xxx

Whoop! Ok I will hold out till xmas eve if you do!

Haha i cant guarantee 100% but i will try my very best xx

LOL I always do better when I make a pact... I don't think I have any cheapies so its easy for me to hold out in that case. I will buy an FRER on Monday for Tuesday am...

 

[o0oCharlieo0o]

I have about 10 cheapies, however i will make that pact with u hun and i wont break it, i will get frer this week and keep it away till xmas eve morning lol xx

 

[slg76]

now I'm going to make you ladies promise....no letting a bfn ruin your mood for Chirstmas!!

 

[o0oCharlieo0o]

now I'm going to make you ladies promise....no letting a bfn ruin your mood for Chirstmas!!

I promise if i get a bfn then there is always next month im in no rush xx

 

[Petzy]

now I'm going to make you ladies promise....no letting a bfn ruin your mood for Chirstmas!!

I promise if i get a bfn then there is always next month im in no rush xx

Ohh Charlie we are in this together hun Its nice to have a partner in crime! Ok I promise not to test early either, I will hold tight until 11DPO and we are both going to have to report that morning our results!

I also will do my very best not to be uber disappointed in a BFN and instead see the upside in the Christmas cocktails I can enjoy over the next few days lol..

Its a deal

 

[fandabby]

Charlie and Petzy wow you are controlled. No backing out now, hide your tests and we will look forward to your news christmas eve...

Good luck ladies.

 

[qwk]

petzy & charlie you guys are too cute. wow Christmas Eve is next week!

 

[o0oCharlieo0o]

now I'm going to make you ladies promise....no letting a bfn ruin your mood for Chirstmas!!

I promise if i get a bfn then there is always next month im in no rush xx

Ohh Charlie we are in this together hun Its nice to have a partner in crime! Ok I promise not to test early either, I will hold tight until 11DPO and we are both going to have to report that morning our results!

I also will do my very best not to be uber disappointed in a BFN and instead see the upside in the Christmas cocktails I can enjoy over the next few days lol..

Its a deal

Lol oh i will i think I'll be on here telling you before i tell anyone else lol!! And exactly if we get bfn then at least we can drink at xmas. The days are going to drag now arent they lol xxx