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maybe because i'm a new mommie and i'm going through a lot with Fob. i've changed my outlook on dating and marriage. don't want marriage and as for dating. . it.'s going to take me a little while. . . . a long while lol how old is your lo?
i know the feeling
i've been officially single nearly a year but been fully free of FOB since 1st july
my son is 7 months old
i'm still really wary and dont trust men
part of me thinks maybe i should give it a go tho if i find someone who seems good,it might be good for me to get out n that n little male attention and if somethin comes of it then good i guess :S
i've been officially single nearly a year but been fully free of FOB since 1st july
my son is 7 months old
i'm still really wary and dont trust men
part of me thinks maybe i should give it a go tho if i find someone who seems good,it might be good for me to get out n that n little male attention and if somethin comes of it then good i guess :S
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I want to date one day but like you said i don't trust anyone.. . I can't wait to be free of all the back and forth with Fob, and maybe one day i'll be with a wonderful guy. i guess i'm going through so much i can't see the sun peaking through the clouds 
i envy your freedom 
but i know you've probably paid your dues 
i envy your freedom but i know you've probably paid your dues i've been there,think i was just hangin on in there trying to make it work for my sons sake
i didnt wanna be a single mum and i wanted to have the whole happy family thing going on
i wasn't happy tho and it was killing my relationship with my son,i saw him as a burdon cause my ex would bail on us or me and leave me with my son even tho he was meant to be part of the family :/
in the end i caught him cheating-read his facebook inbox haha
i was so glad-finally i had a reason to leave the relationship and it not to be on my head,i wouldnt have to feel guilty for the break up of the family etc etc
i really didn't see the light at the end of the tunnel but the only thing keeping me in the dark was my ex....it took a while to break free but once i did things got better and better
i didnt wanna be a single mum and i wanted to have the whole happy family thing going on
i wasn't happy tho and it was killing my relationship with my son,i saw him as a burdon cause my ex would bail on us or me and leave me with my son even tho he was meant to be part of the family :/
in the end i caught him cheating-read his facebook inbox haha
i was so glad-finally i had a reason to leave the relationship and it not to be on my head,i wouldnt have to feel guilty for the break up of the family etc etc
i really didn't see the light at the end of the tunnel but the only thing keeping me in the dark was my ex....it took a while to break free but once i did things got better and better
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This right here are my sentiments exactly. I have been single for 10 months now and am starting to think along the lines of maybe meeting someone else but i just dont think i can get over the trusting someone bit. i was hurt really badly with my ex and cant imagine myself ever being in another serious realtionship again and as for meeting LO i guess its when you feel confident with your new man in a relationship, personally i would hate to bring people in and out of his life if it wasn't serious.
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I've been single for 3 months. I'm already opening the doors but I got myself into a messy situation which I still havent worked out fully.. Older guy, confusing! Keeps reinforcing what I always thought and makes me even more wary of doing it again
But.. If Mr Right came along its different for us than FOB's.. We only get a day or two off from our LO's whereas they get all the other time off. FOB and his new girlfriend were able to start a relationship as soon as where for me its different. I have so many boxes that need ticking but when its right you will know it.
As and when you and your new man are comfortable is when you introduce. I've told FOB he cannot introduce the twins to his new girlfriend yet because they are still getting used to seeing him on the odd days whereas my situation would be different.
But.. If Mr Right came along its different for us than FOB's.. We only get a day or two off from our LO's whereas they get all the other time off. FOB and his new girlfriend were able to start a relationship as soon as where for me its different. I have so many boxes that need ticking but when its right you will know it.
As and when you and your new man are comfortable is when you introduce. I've told FOB he cannot introduce the twins to his new girlfriend yet because they are still getting used to seeing him on the odd days whereas my situation would be different.
