I had my last at 11.55pm on New Year's Eve & so far, so good. It hasn't been easy but at the same time, it's been surprisingly ok. I know exactly what you mean about this TTC game being stressful & calming the nerves with a good old smoke works a treat but i'm determined.
I came off the BCP last Jan, we WTWP for 6x months before actively TTC since June. I'm hoping that 2011 is the year & i figured that my habit wasn't helping matters. I smoked for 19 years & in the last 3x years, i cut down from 20x a day to between 5-10x a day. I went cold turkey at midnight & to help matters, i threw out all traces of ciggie based things (lighters, ashtrays, etc). Airwaves chewing gum seems to be doing the trick & i'm feeling positive.
With regard to fertility, my Doc has referred me for blood tests to see if i've any problems & i'm waiting for my AF to arrive at the mo. I'm hoping it doesn't arrive & i'll just have to wait & see!
For all the smokers on here who are apprehensive about giving quitting a go - try it & see how you get on. I thought i'd be rubbish & i know it's only early days for me, but it's going better than i thought! x