Or your DH or SO? Sometimes I would swear my OH has no clue what's going on. Other times it's just jaw dropping how observant he is. He has started rubbing my lower back randomly at times. I've had some mild lower back pain, and I was rubbing my back a lot. When I offer to cook, he chooses something he knows baby likes. He has started helping around the house on the weekends, as I got pretty behind in first tri. Thought it may be fun to give OH and DH a kudos, because they are doing well, considering most of us are high on hormones. At least I am, and slightly crazy with it.