My OH is simply amazing. He works 70+ hours a week starting up our business, and still comes home to the kids and does everything and anything to help. He does the baths, cleans up, dishes, etc. He doesn't really do the foot rub thing though. He did loads during my first pregnancy, but now he just figures I'll get on with it He is a serious after-birth bonder with his kids. He doesn't really talk about the baby much otherwise (except for things like new cars etc haha). But omg I couldn't ask for a better father to my kids - patient, fun and so loving. He always has time for them despite his long long hours. Yay for awesome OHs!!