How often does FOB see baby?

[IJmommy619]

My son's sperm donor has seen him a handful of times, and he will be 2 in June. He didn't even call him on his birthday, let alone come to his party, and didn't even bother getting him a toy car or SOMETHING for Christmas. I have friends who have been around a ton more than he has.

 

[karmah]

i kicked my son's father to the curb back in november and he has yet to meet him. he was telling people the baby's name but was pronoucing it wrong (even tho he was still around when i was telling him what i wanted to name a baby boy and spell it). he tells people it is 'our baby' and that 'we' had a son. well i know he's the father but he hasn't been involved or even inquired about my pregnancy/the baby until a few weeks ago. i don't think there is a 'we' and he has done nothing to help us. mofo still owes me $60 nevermind childsupport. the only time i see him is in my nightmares where he is trying to take my baby boy from me.

now i really don't even want him to come around or call any more. if he can't be an active, healthy person for the baby on a regular basis then i would really rather he just stay away. i didn't even bother putting his name on the birth certificate. i would love to tell people i am just so awesome i reproduced asexually!

 

[Linz88]

my daughter was born @ 29 weeks.. he came

10 minz wen she was an hour old
5 minz wen she was 5 days old
1 hour wen she was 3 weeks
1 hour wen she was 7 week
didnt see her for ageees
and hez seen her 3times in the past 2 months and shes 10 months old

 

[anna matronic]

Evan's never seen his dad. Had a row when I told him I was pregnant, but then told me to let him know how my scan went. Never heard from him. Text him before Xmas asking if he wanted to see lo, he said he wasn't ready, but maybe soon. Got an email 3 weeks ago telling me I was selfish and making him look like an idiot

Twat, glad he's not in our lives.

 

[lal]

nearly every day, but it's only been 3 months and he doesn't have a girlfriend right now When he does, I'm thinking 1-2X a month, for appearances.

 

[LauraBee]

Okay, this thread is both comforting (because a lot of people have similar situations to mine) and infuriating (how can men just shrug off a child so easily!?)