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Ok so seems a bit crazy writing this as my newborn son is only a week and half old.
He was going to be our last baby due to my age (I will be the big 4 0 in December)
But I wud really love just one more.
It's a long way off yet but me and hubby have been talking about trying for just one more baby when Tommy is about 17 18 months old.
Thinking of starting to ttc around February 2021. I will be 41 years old and if it happens baby wud be due when I'm either still 41 or 42. Is that to old? Am I being selfish?
People say they just know when there done and I dont feel done yet. I think it wud be lovely for my son as well to have a sibling close in age to play with.
I have spoken to the midwifes at the hospital and they said they have alot of womon in there 40s having babies.
Theres just such a huge stigma on mums having babies past a certain age. I think its terrible.
I feel more calmer and relaxed now being a new mum at 39 than I did with my first at age 23. As weird as that sounds.
I just dont understand why older mums get so judged.
Good luck to all of you ttc right now. Sending u lots of baby dust.
Please dont let anyone discourage you and ridicule you for being older.
This world is so judgemental
He was going to be our last baby due to my age (I will be the big 4 0 in December)
But I wud really love just one more.
It's a long way off yet but me and hubby have been talking about trying for just one more baby when Tommy is about 17 18 months old.
Thinking of starting to ttc around February 2021. I will be 41 years old and if it happens baby wud be due when I'm either still 41 or 42. Is that to old? Am I being selfish?
People say they just know when there done and I dont feel done yet. I think it wud be lovely for my son as well to have a sibling close in age to play with.
I have spoken to the midwifes at the hospital and they said they have alot of womon in there 40s having babies.
Theres just such a huge stigma on mums having babies past a certain age. I think its terrible.
I feel more calmer and relaxed now being a new mum at 39 than I did with my first at age 23. As weird as that sounds.
I just dont understand why older mums get so judged.
Good luck to all of you ttc right now. Sending u lots of baby dust.
Please dont let anyone discourage you and ridicule you for being older.
This world is so judgemental