AllisonH
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I cant believe you have posted this in the over 35 section! even with your little disclaimer
it is so rude and we dont care if those are your feelings!Now i'm not trying to start anything, please don't feel like that. I'm not saying anything is wrong with ttc after 35. These are just my feelings.
I will tell you with no doubt that 30 and above is NOT too old to be having kids, and I think that is a ridiculous statement to make in this section. I am 38 and feel the same as I did 10 years ago, what do you think magically happens at 30, that you need glasses and a walking stick??? my husband is 29 and I feel no different to him but in your eyes I am ancient.
why do you need to know the answers to these questions? how does that help your life in any way? who cares what people thought when they were younger, everyone seems old when you are younger.When you were younger, did you ever think a certain age is too old to have kids, and now that you're ttc is it any different? Are there some that think they are too old but figure it's the only chance to ever have kids?
at least I know at my OLD age Im smart enough not to post something like this so that means I will probably make a better parent too
Amen Sista'!! I'm 30 and just started trying. I was WAYYY too much of an idiot in my 20s to have even considered becoming a mother. I'm glad that my hubs and I saved $$$ and got our Sh** together before jumping into conception. Your words made my night!!