Good morning,
I recently suffered a miscarriage at 10 weeks. I've been doing a lot of thinking (about everything) and I have the suspicion that one of my closest girlfriends is going to start trying for a baby in the next few weeks. (She's going on her honeymoon and I'm pretty sure that's when the baby making will start). I am seriously stressing myself out as to how I'm going to react when the day comes that she tells me she's pregnant. She's pretty much my last girlfriend that is like me.....childless. I know I'm supposed to be happy for her when the time comes but I also know I'm going to be feeling immense jealousy, envy, sadness, etc. I'm terrified that I'm going to pull away and lose one of my closest friends. Has anyone else been through this? How have you managed to handle this? I guess I'm looking for advice on how to deal with this situation that I have a feeling I'll be facing very soon. Thank you so much for helping me!
I recently suffered a miscarriage at 10 weeks. I've been doing a lot of thinking (about everything) and I have the suspicion that one of my closest girlfriends is going to start trying for a baby in the next few weeks. (She's going on her honeymoon and I'm pretty sure that's when the baby making will start). I am seriously stressing myself out as to how I'm going to react when the day comes that she tells me she's pregnant. She's pretty much my last girlfriend that is like me.....childless. I know I'm supposed to be happy for her when the time comes but I also know I'm going to be feeling immense jealousy, envy, sadness, etc. I'm terrified that I'm going to pull away and lose one of my closest friends. Has anyone else been through this? How have you managed to handle this? I guess I'm looking for advice on how to deal with this situation that I have a feeling I'll be facing very soon. Thank you so much for helping me!