One of my best friends just lost her mom. She (the mom) had been unwell for a while but had a stroke a while ago and did not recover.
My friend has two young children, 9 and 6. Her ex-husband is NOT going to step up and realize that he should support his children and their mother. Her dad and sister are also going to be very upset, obviously. I want to offer her as much support as I can. She does have a nanny who can help with looking after the kids especially after school, and some household stuff like laundry.
I am looking for suggestions on how I can support her. We are sending flowers and I am bringing food over later today. I told her how sorry I was to hear of her mother's passing (it was a message as she didn't answer). I don't know a thing about funeral rites in her religion and culture, but if there is some sort of ceremony where it is appropriate for me to attend, I will. I've offered to have her kids here or look after them at her house, or drive them to and from lessons.
What else can I do to support her?
My friend has two young children, 9 and 6. Her ex-husband is NOT going to step up and realize that he should support his children and their mother. Her dad and sister are also going to be very upset, obviously. I want to offer her as much support as I can. She does have a nanny who can help with looking after the kids especially after school, and some household stuff like laundry.
I am looking for suggestions on how I can support her. We are sending flowers and I am bringing food over later today. I told her how sorry I was to hear of her mother's passing (it was a message as she didn't answer). I don't know a thing about funeral rites in her religion and culture, but if there is some sort of ceremony where it is appropriate for me to attend, I will. I've offered to have her kids here or look after them at her house, or drive them to and from lessons.
What else can I do to support her?