Abigail8673
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I am due in 5/6 weeks. I am getting really fusterated with family. I have 3 sisters, that all have spouses plus my two parents, my husband has 5 siblings all with another and his two parents and im not kidding when i say they ALL plan on coming. Im so f***ing annoyed. My MIL is super over bearing and had all 6 of her kids within 2 hours (all natural too) and thinks childbirth is easy and keeps telling me I dont know what im talking about and visitors arnt a big deal because you really arnt in that bad of shape after. then because this is the first grand baby/ nephew on my hubby side they ALL want to be there and I keep telling them they can come but have to leave within 15/20 mins because we will be tired and NEED to work on breastfeeding its our goal and we want time to bond as a family and they keep telling me im so selfish!! its pissing me off then i have my family who thinks that my in laws are ridiculous but they are no better! they all want to be there and stay and say they will make a huge fuss if his family is there because they think they are too annoying. I understand everyone is excited for this baby, I know they want to see him but I think that coming taking a quick photo and leaving is all that should be allowed for the few day because there is so many of them, they are all loud people, and i want time with my son and husband ALONE TIME. we will be tired enough I dont think we need to entertain a bunch of people . I dont know how to get it through their skulls. my husband is almost sheepish on the issue but all i can think it hes NOT the one delivering this baby and he WILL be exhausted