Sorry, really don't want to be a downer, but having suffered a mmc on 22nd Oct, xmas just won't be the same for me this year. I see all the adverts on the telly, all our decorations are up and the christmas songs are all on the radio but I still feel nothing and I usually LOVE christmas!. I really can't be bothered with it all this year, everyone keeps asking what I want for christmas but my only answer to that would be a baby!. My sister in law is due in february so having to see her over the christmas period is going to be hard. Suppose it doesn't help that around about now we would be finding out if it was a boy or a girl. Sorry for the rant but really needed to get it off my chest!. Any advice on coping with the festive period this year would be really appreciated.