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[roximarie]

Hey
I'm not much of a poster on here but right now could do with some advice from ladies who are in the same situation as me.
Our relationship has been rocky ever since LO was born, I don't think OH could accept the fact that a baby completely changes your whole life. To cut a long story short, he left yesterday after months and months of progressively worse screaming matches.
LO is 18 months old and I know deep down we are better off without him but how do you begin to rebuild your whole life from nothing?
My heart is aching even though things have been so bad, I still love him and it's tearing me apart.
I have tried contacting him about hi visiting LO but he won't reply - he has definitely received the texts as I get delivery reports.
I just need a few kind words if nothing else
Thanks

 

[BrokenfoREVer]

Didn't want to read and run hun.

Maybe you should leave it a for a few days, a week maybe & let things cool down then get in touch with him about seeing LO. Then you give yourself & him time to come to terms with whats happened & start to deal with it.

Fingers crossed it works out for you

 

[Groovychick]

I agree. Let things cool down and try contacting him again. In the meantime, try to concentrate on yourself and LO. Get help from your friends and family if you can.