velo
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Hi - its been forever since I've posted here! Still trying but getting discouraged, and I have been quite stressed lately (both DH and I unemployed). Anyway after trying to get in for the HSG test since August I have it scheduled for Nov 9 which should hopefully be CD7.
Problem - they just sent me a letter which states "Please arrange a ride home". DH just started a temporary 3 week job which he looked at me like I was mad for suggesting trying to get the afternoon off. We only have one family member in the area who is currently not speaking to us (ah yet more stress) and unlikely to be resolved soon. We moved to our area a year or so ago and have not made any close friends yet.
I'm loathe to cancel the appt (though it would be nice if I had a good reason to but that seems unlikely) I have a few neighbours I can try and ask but I feel its such a big imposition (as it will kill 3-4 hours of a weekday based on travel time to hospital etc)
Oh ya and DH and I share one car and his job is 45 min drive away so to get the car I'd have to drive a LOT that day and if I feel like driving myself home and napping I probably have to drive to pick him up. I must also confess I drive infrequently, am nervous at at and not very good at it so driving on painkillers may be a bad idea anyway. The bus I would have to wait more than 3 hours to catch, and a taxi would be $80 which I can't really afford atm.
Googling HSG was a bad thing I did not need to read the details I think. I am pretty pain adverse to begin with and I've always had a really hard time with speculums to begin with (my cervix is tilted and noone can seem to figure out which way to put it in to not cause pain)
Plan A - is this completely a bad idea? Ride my bicycle to the appt (it will take 1h15 one way at minimum) and hope its not raining like a ******* with 80 kph winds (as would not be an atypical November day around here). Wait for sharp pain to subside after appt (hope it does not take long) then ride home slowly. If pain is too much text hubby and wait 3+ hours in the waiting room with a book for him to come and collect me and bike.
I could also just bank on killing the whole day, and take the bus in which I would need to arrive a couple hours early and then read/wait for hubby to pick me up, but will it be too uncomfortable to sit in a chair?
Obviously ideally would be find someone who could take me. SIGH.
Any comments about the HSG (hoping to hear some it was nothing! stories)?
Problem - they just sent me a letter which states "Please arrange a ride home". DH just started a temporary 3 week job which he looked at me like I was mad for suggesting trying to get the afternoon off. We only have one family member in the area who is currently not speaking to us (ah yet more stress) and unlikely to be resolved soon. We moved to our area a year or so ago and have not made any close friends yet.
I'm loathe to cancel the appt (though it would be nice if I had a good reason to but that seems unlikely) I have a few neighbours I can try and ask but I feel its such a big imposition (as it will kill 3-4 hours of a weekday based on travel time to hospital etc)
Oh ya and DH and I share one car and his job is 45 min drive away so to get the car I'd have to drive a LOT that day and if I feel like driving myself home and napping I probably have to drive to pick him up. I must also confess I drive infrequently, am nervous at at and not very good at it so driving on painkillers may be a bad idea anyway. The bus I would have to wait more than 3 hours to catch, and a taxi would be $80 which I can't really afford atm.
Googling HSG was a bad thing I did not need to read the details I think. I am pretty pain adverse to begin with and I've always had a really hard time with speculums to begin with (my cervix is tilted and noone can seem to figure out which way to put it in to not cause pain)
Plan A - is this completely a bad idea? Ride my bicycle to the appt (it will take 1h15 one way at minimum) and hope its not raining like a ******* with 80 kph winds (as would not be an atypical November day around here). Wait for sharp pain to subside after appt (hope it does not take long) then ride home slowly. If pain is too much text hubby and wait 3+ hours in the waiting room with a book for him to come and collect me and bike.
I could also just bank on killing the whole day, and take the bus in which I would need to arrive a couple hours early and then read/wait for hubby to pick me up, but will it be too uncomfortable to sit in a chair?
Obviously ideally would be find someone who could take me. SIGH.
Any comments about the HSG (hoping to hear some it was nothing! stories)?