My hubby doesnt have Anxiety issues, but I do. And Major Depressive Disorder. Sometimes I wonder if Ill be a good mom. Sometimes I wonder if Ill be able to handle it. But I know, deep down, that if I stay in therapy, keeping seeing my Psychiatrist, and stay on my meds, Ill be ok. I have an amazing support system.
That being said, have you and your DH talked about it? About how the idea of a baby makes him feel?
Im sorry. IDK if this helped at all. Just wanted to share my expiriance. Hope it does tho!