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Was hoping for some input from you ladies on whether I am just being hormonal and unreasonable, or whether this is a mad idea.
My husband's brother is getting married ( for the second time) on March 19th in Australia. Our baby is due on the 3rd feb, and we also have a 2 yr old and 4 yr old. His family are expecting him to attend. We live in Switzerland.
This would involve him leaving me with 3 kids, including a one month old, and 2 preschoolers alone for at least 7 days. I have no family around to help, and not all that many friends. It would also involve him being really tired because of jet lag, and using up 5 days of our holidays together to go. Not to mention the cost.
My kids only have childcare 2 mornings a week, and I just don't know how I am going to cope. I do realize, that he could be called on to go on a business trip at a similar time, but at least that wouldn't involve spending our money and annual leave allocation.
My husband is too scared of upsetting his family by saying no, but is this not an unreasonable thing to expect someone to do? He is not particularly close to his brother ( given that they live on different continents, and probably only really speaks to him a couple of times a year).
I'm really struggling with spd and things at the moment, which I know will be better once the baby is born, but I'm still getting really panicked about that week, already!
Am I being unreasonable? Any tips on how to get out of this?
My husband's view was that we also can't get out of it because we knew about the wedding before we got pregnant. But things change right? They've been engaged for over 2 years, were we suppose to put our life on hold in the lead up?
Ahhh! Sorry for long rambling post.
My husband's brother is getting married ( for the second time) on March 19th in Australia. Our baby is due on the 3rd feb, and we also have a 2 yr old and 4 yr old. His family are expecting him to attend. We live in Switzerland.
This would involve him leaving me with 3 kids, including a one month old, and 2 preschoolers alone for at least 7 days. I have no family around to help, and not all that many friends. It would also involve him being really tired because of jet lag, and using up 5 days of our holidays together to go. Not to mention the cost.
My kids only have childcare 2 mornings a week, and I just don't know how I am going to cope. I do realize, that he could be called on to go on a business trip at a similar time, but at least that wouldn't involve spending our money and annual leave allocation.
My husband is too scared of upsetting his family by saying no, but is this not an unreasonable thing to expect someone to do? He is not particularly close to his brother ( given that they live on different continents, and probably only really speaks to him a couple of times a year).
I'm really struggling with spd and things at the moment, which I know will be better once the baby is born, but I'm still getting really panicked about that week, already!
Am I being unreasonable? Any tips on how to get out of this?
My husband's view was that we also can't get out of it because we knew about the wedding before we got pregnant. But things change right? They've been engaged for over 2 years, were we suppose to put our life on hold in the lead up?
Ahhh! Sorry for long rambling post.