sweetcheeks78
Mum to 2 gorgeous boys
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Let me start this thread by saying that, after baby #1, I was fairly sure I didn't want any more. However, as time's gone on I really, really do. DS is 4 now and I really want another and have done for the last 2 years. When I first mentioned it to to DH, he was dead against it. I told him I would be happy to wait until DS1 was starting school, and he agreed that wouldn't be so bad. So, end of last year I said to him so are we going to do this, and he said yes. Hurrah, so I get my mirena out last week. DH has been quite short-tempered and quiet, I confronted him last night and asked if it was about trying for #2 and he said yes. Now, I know he doesn't want a baby as much as I do, and if I said I had changed my mind he'd be relieved, but all he seems to be thinking on are the negatives, how much harder life will be etc. I have not pressured him into this, not given him and ultimatum or any such thing. So why do I feel like I am totally alone in wanting this?