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Sorry, ladies. I need to vent and I thought this would be the place I'd get the most support.
I know that this is our fourth baby so this isn't our first walk in the park but I can't seem to get over my husband's indifference to this pregnancy. With my first two babies, whenever I would cry out because of an ache or pain, he'd ask me if I was ok. When I told him the baby was moving, he'd want to feel it. He was never an emotional guy and never cried during their births (although this probably makes him a good birthing partner because he wouldn't upset me during the birth I do tend to envy the guys that do show emotions during such a transitional time) but he was genuinely excited to see them. He told me numerous times that he couldn't wait to see their faces.
This time and last time when I'd complain about something hurting me, he'd just ignore me. During my last daughter's birth he acted bored and hardly helped me with the baby while we were in the hospital. He was practically sleeping during the ultrasounds with this one. We're planning on going on a trip next week - his choice, not mine - and I tried talking him out of it because I don't know if I'll be able to ride 6 hours in a car without swelling up, also my morning sickness still isn't quite gone yet. His reaction? "Oh just take a tablet." (referring to the tablets my doctor prescribed me for nausea)
I know I probably seem like I'm being a whiny hormonal brat but I'm so tired of his indifference to this pregnancy.
I know that this is our fourth baby so this isn't our first walk in the park but I can't seem to get over my husband's indifference to this pregnancy. With my first two babies, whenever I would cry out because of an ache or pain, he'd ask me if I was ok. When I told him the baby was moving, he'd want to feel it. He was never an emotional guy and never cried during their births (although this probably makes him a good birthing partner because he wouldn't upset me during the birth I do tend to envy the guys that do show emotions during such a transitional time) but he was genuinely excited to see them. He told me numerous times that he couldn't wait to see their faces.
This time and last time when I'd complain about something hurting me, he'd just ignore me. During my last daughter's birth he acted bored and hardly helped me with the baby while we were in the hospital. He was practically sleeping during the ultrasounds with this one. We're planning on going on a trip next week - his choice, not mine - and I tried talking him out of it because I don't know if I'll be able to ride 6 hours in a car without swelling up, also my morning sickness still isn't quite gone yet. His reaction? "Oh just take a tablet." (referring to the tablets my doctor prescribed me for nausea)
I know I probably seem like I'm being a whiny hormonal brat but I'm so tired of his indifference to this pregnancy.