GetNmyBelly
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first I want 2 say sorry 4 posting personal issues on here..id just rather hear wat u ladies think before I go 2 my family with this situation. soo its gotten pretty bad with my marriage. im 23 he is 26. he smokes weed every day & when he runs out he is mean 2 me. we both wanted a baby.. but he acts like he could care less about it. he doesn't seem interested when I talk about baby & he hasn't been 2 any doctor appointments with me. we don't sleep n the same bed anymore. when he upsets me & I cry 4 long periods of time he doesn't say one word 2 me. I haven't been able 2 keep any food down for 2 days straight.. he could care less it doesn't concern him at all. when we argue he threatens 2 get custody of the baby & give it a new mommy. we've probably kissed once on the lips n the past week (maybe longer) & we never hug. when I tell him 2 come gimme a kiss or something he always says "no" I always wanted 2 have a baby with him & a part of me thought he might love me more if we get pregnant.. (& no this is not the reason I wanted a baby) but its like worse? just typing all of this & realizing everything that's going on makes me soo sad im so sorry this is long..things r just not going good 4 me. his good qualities: he gave me my baby.. that's pretty much it. I feel everything is just falling apart before my eyes. I cry all the time he never spends time with me or anything. ive never actually "left" him or anything like that. maybe if I did leave 4 a while he would realize im not putting up with the bullshit anymore & he would change? or am I just having wishful thinking? I talked 2 my mom earlier & I am going 2 her house tomoro 2 cool off & think about everything. I mean I should probably leave him right? or do I make it work 4 my family?