Hi all, Im new to here and been ttc now since end of October, came of the pill and was surprised to see periods are pretty normal 30 day cycle! Probblem I am having is my husband. We met 5 years ago and he has had this problem on and off for 5 years. To be honest most of the time when we try to do it he either cant come or cant stay hard. Its not worried me too much in the past as I just thought, well it dosent really matter and I love him, but now I want a baby with him its really frustrating. Im trying to calculate my peak flows each month to see when is a good time to try, but even when we do, the same thing happens. I have now gone completely off sex as I know what will always happen, he tends to joke it off when it does. Im so frustrated and upset, a few ppl know that we are trying and everyone must think its me with the problem. Since marrying 6 mths ago i think he has only come once or twice! He did mention it to the Dr who said perhaps it could be stress related and he should do things to de stress. He dosent think he is stressed but also hasnt done antyhing. I am so upset! What should I do?