husbands with a fetish?

[Heather9603]

Its okay Geogem, the "taboo" stuff gets me going too. I just wish DH was into it more!

Like I enjoy sucking his nipples, and he hates it haha. I also enjoy a little pain, which actually he doesn't mind that one. But I have to tell him when I'm enjoying it! haha. I think it depends on where I'm at in my cycle. When I'm Oving, I'm WAY more into the kink!

 

[geogem]

oh hell yeah, i'm way worse when i am ov'ing!!

I thought it was the men that was supposed to be the kinky ones.... not in my house!

 

[taylorxx]

I wish my DH would have sex in public. I have begged him to pull over so we could...well you know lol but hes a big chicken....I want to have sex on the beach too but its a little too scary at night and too many people during the day lol

You guys have no problem telling us your husbands fetishes but what about yours??? lol This is gonna get even more interesting

Sex on the beach really isn't that great to be honest. OH & I did it twice and sand kept getting into my lady part and it felt like sandpaper lol. It kept blowing in our faces too haha. The last time we almost got caught LOL it was so embarrassing! hahah

 

[Heather9603]

oh hell yeah, i'm way worse when i am ov'ing!!

I thought it was the men that was supposed to be the kinky ones.... not in my house!

Dh LOVES Ov sex! My boobs look great, I'm usually glowing, my skin is usually more clear, and I'm obviously very horny! lol.

 

[mom22boys]

LMBO!!!! Awwwww I feel so normal now after reading thru these!

We had sex in the Deer Stand one time, in the summer we like to go out in our pool at night! FUN FUN!!

As far as really weird things there are not any other than the nasty movie every now and then!

 

[jenniferttc1]

I'm so suprised with all the responses ladies, I was so sure I'd get atleast one girl in here complaining about our language! ha ha

 

[Squishy]

I'm so suprised with all the responses ladies, I was so sure I'd get atleast one girl in here complaining about our language! ha ha

SHOCKHORROR OMG will you keep the noise down in here! XD lol

@Bees - I completely get the whole weight gain too I've put on so much too, and it's definitly made it harder to just enjoy myself in the bedroom -.-
Which sucks cause I'm very into sex, fantasies, kinkiness etc but we no longer have sex for 'fun'.

DH isn't that into sex - which I was shocked by when we first started dating etc, but I still love him to bits XD - and I've asked him lotsa times if he has fetishes but nada (frustrates the hell out of me I can tell you!!). And with the extra weight it's made it worse. Luckily the ttc has brought us closer together in that way for the better I believe.

DH also is super sensitive and will go off really early sometimes, so any tips to stop that would be awesome!! Or any tips to try get him more into sex!

Wish we could get a sex overhaul - if you know what I mean - I dont orgasm at all with DH, but can make myself orgasm on my own in a heartbeat. /sigh (love my rabbit lol). A big thing for me in bed, dunno if it would be a fetish or not, but I love it when DH stimulates me by his hand going round the back instead of in front - seems more naughty lol. Oooh and yeah outdoor sex is a big thing for me (or at least it used to be b4 time with DH).

I know I want to try a whole load of different things in bed, but I need him to be willing and it not always be me initiating it.

any advice appreciated

 

[Heather9603]

I'm so suprised with all the responses ladies, I was so sure I'd get atleast one girl in here complaining about our language! ha ha

SHOCKHORROR OMG will you keep the noise down in here! XD lol

@Bees - I completely get the whole weight gain too I've put on so much too, and it's definitly made it harder to just enjoy myself in the bedroom -.-
Which sucks cause I'm very into sex, fantasies, kinkiness etc but we no longer have sex for 'fun'.

DH isn't that into sex - which I was shocked by when we first started dating etc, but I still love him to bits XD - and I've asked him lotsa times if he has fetishes but nada (frustrates the hell out of me I can tell you!!). And with the extra weight it's made it worse. Luckily the ttc has brought us closer together in that way for the better I believe.

DH also is super sensitive and will go off really early sometimes, so any tips to stop that would be awesome!! Or any tips to try get him more into sex!

Wish we could get a sex overhaul - if you know what I mean - I dont orgasm at all with DH, but can make myself orgasm on my own in a heartbeat. /sigh (love my rabbit lol). A big thing for me in bed, dunno if it would be a fetish or not, but I love it when DH stimulates me by his hand going round the back instead of in front - seems more naughty lol. Oooh and yeah outdoor sex is a big thing for me (or at least it used to be b4 time with DH).

I know I want to try a whole load of different things in bed, but I need him to be willing and it not always be me initiating it.

any advice appreciated

Have you ever tried to use a bullet during sex? Its SUPER fun to figure out what positions allow you to hold it. Our best are doggy and girl on top where I'm more standing on my knees with my back straight up (So like I'm sitting on him, not leaning forward at all)

Also to get him to last longer, if he feels close, have him squeeze the base of his penis. And I mean SQUEEZE pretty hard. It cuts off the blood flow making the penis stay hard (kind of like a c*ck ring without having to actually have one on the whole time)

Which speaking of, you can try a c*ck ring. They have ones that have a little built in bullet vibe. We used to use C*ck rings but they didn't really work for us, they just kept sliding off. DH is pretty long...but he lacks in the girth department.....lol. But he's fine for me because I have a narrow vagina

 

[Squishy]

Oooh thanks for the tips Heather... off to abuse the google search engine now - curious about this bullet! XD

 

[Squishy]

:O At first glance it sounds AWESOME... why have I not heard about this before?! lol

 

[Heather9603]

:O At first glance it sounds AWESOME... why have I not heard about this before?! lol

Like just a regular bullet vibe!? I don't know if you've been using a rabbit!!!! lol. But they are awesome!

But I would recommended getting rechargeable batteries. Energizer makes a pretty good set and they are not too expensive. I think the wall charger is like 15 bucks and it comes with two batteries, and a pack of four are like 10-15 bucks. Which obviously seems like a lot, but when you a good 100 uses out of them, its worth it!

And this post is just making me realize that I am off restrictions. I dislocated two ribs and was told to pretty much do nothing but rest for the last three weeks. I got off restriction yesterday but had a horrible migraine. So DH and I need to hit the sack!!! lol. Nothing kinky though, don't want to un do all my chiropractors hard work

 

[Jess137]

I love this thread! I'm NORMAL!!! (Haven't considered myself normal for a long time!)

We do anal pretty often, DH loves it, but I have hemorrhoids that flare up sometimes with anal. I enjoy it also, it feels really good but I have to really concentrate on relaxing and go really slow at first otherwise it hurts. DH love to have his nipples licked/sucked, which probably isn't that weird, but he LOVES it. He also like to give me oral, which is good because I can't finish just with penetration. DH has also recently discovered that he likes it when I give him oral but he stands up and has me just sit still and he moves himself, I think he feels like he is in a porno! Gonna have to knock this stuff off though, can't make a baby like that!

I don't have any weird fetishes but I do like thinking about taboo stuff, like being dominated, etc. but haven't actually tried being dominated iykwim. Lots of ideas here though, I'll have to keep up with this thread!

 

[Squishy]

:O At first glance it sounds AWESOME... why have I not heard about this before?! lol

Like just a regular bullet vibe!? I don't know if you've been using a rabbit!!!! lol. But they are awesome!

But I would recommended getting rechargeable batteries. Energizer makes a pretty good set and they are not too expensive. I think the wall charger is like 15 bucks and it comes with two batteries, and a pack of four are like 10-15 bucks. Which obviously seems like a lot, but when you a good 100 uses out of them, its worth it!

And this post is just making me realize that I am off restrictions. I dislocated two ribs and was told to pretty much do nothing but rest for the last three weeks. I got off restriction yesterday but had a horrible migraine. So DH and I need to hit the sack!!! lol. Nothing kinky though, don't want to un do all my chiropractors hard work

Ok I have returned sex-toy educated! \o/ and OMG soo excited! So I went searching for a bullet, found many a couple that I like the look of and which I will buy.. but then I stumbled on this baby - its called We-Vibe II - shaped like a C, one bits fits inside you and the other bit on your clit and its vibrates \o/ while also allowing plenty of room for your partner to enter too. (Now if it would also do the washing and ironing I would be in HEAVEN.) It's expensive but looks so bloody awesome.

Anyhoo, its ordered with a whole load of other goodies, incl stuff to delay DH. No idea why I never thought of going on a sex-toy shopping spree before - you would've thought I would with the problems we have - so thankies girlies for this thread and making the light-bulb switch on!

Heather - dare I ask how you dislocated two ribs? And lol try not to hurt yourselves in your post sex-drought^ hehe.

...Now I must try be patient and not tear the parcel out of the postmans hands when my goodies arrive.

 

[jenniferttc1]

ladies you should try some sex games!

 

[jenniferttc1]

Also I recommend these!!!
https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/vibrators/rabbit-vibrators-c-1046.aspx
we all know how important enjoying sex is during ttc, and lets face it, most women alone can't orgasim with just sex. I usully turn the vibrator backwards to wear I only use the rabbit part while having sex, and its WONDERFUL! I have two of the vibrators on the first row, its the forth one, its also has these beads in the inside that rotate (but i don't like them it kinda hurts!) so you can choose any you like, its basically something awesome to use when your in the mood and home alone, but somethig you can flip around and use during intercourse!

https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/vibrators/rabbit-vibrators-c-1046.aspx

 

[Heather9603]

Squishy. I havn't tried the C shape thing, but I've seen it. I've tried out quite a few toys over the years, but I still go back to my bullet! lol. I like the oval shaped one more than the egg shaped one. I like the smooth and even

One of my favorites though other then the vibe is this dildo, but its not shaped like a penis. I don't want to get in trouble for posting links but google "Jelly fun flex g-spot". Its a pink curved dildo. Once you put it in, it curves up perfectly to hit the g-spot. Sometimes if DH gets off too quick, I'll finish with that plus the bullet vibe. He's pretty good about it and doesn't mind lending a hand!

Jen: We've tried games, but it wasn't for us. But I think its worth a shot! but we have played regular family games and made them naughty. Think strip poker but with family games! haha. And we even once turned the wholesome family game of Life into a drinking game with my sister! Everytime you landed on a life tile spot, you had to take a shot and the other players had to take a half shot. It wasn't very well planned out, because we ALL were landing on life tiles every turn! We were all plastered after about 1/3 of the game.

Funny thing is the next morning we went downstairs to make breakfast, and all of our little cars on the game board were parked crooked, backwards, or upside down. We all had a good laugh about our life cars drinking and driving!

 

[jenniferttc1]

Squishy. I havn't tried the C shape thing, but I've seen it. I've tried out quite a few toys over the years, but I still go back to my bullet! lol. I like the oval shaped one more than the egg shaped one. I like the smooth and even

One of my favorites though other then the vibe is this dildo, but its not shaped like a penis. I don't want to get in trouble for posting links but google "Jelly fun flex g-spot". Its a pink curved dildo. Once you put it in, it curves up perfectly to hit the g-spot. Sometimes if DH gets off too quick, I'll finish with that plus the bullet vibe. He's pretty good about it and doesn't mind lending a hand!

Jen: We've tried games, but it wasn't for us. But I think its worth a shot! but we have played regular family games and made them naughty. Think strip poker but with family games! haha. And we even once turned the wholesome family game of Life into a drinking game with my sister! Everytime you landed on a life tile spot, you had to take a shot and the other players had to take a half shot. It wasn't very well planned out, because we ALL were landing on life tiles every turn! We were all plastered after about 1/3 of the game.

Funny thing is the next morning we went downstairs to make breakfast, and all of our little cars on the game board were parked crooked, backwards, or upside down. We all had a good laugh about our life cars drinking and driving!

I havent tried any games yet, but my husband loves new things! We really need something to spice up the sex life after now on 19 cycles off ttc. So im willing to try anything to get the bond back, and tonight I think I succeeded! ))

 

[jenniferttc1]

Tell me ladies what new things you tried recently or tonight!
Tonight AF got me, after I got home from going out for a few margarita's with hubby, and some cousins Not to upset since I've already confirmed no ovulation with 2 months of progestrone test, and will be starting 6 months of clomid next cycle
But tonight since AF started and I was in the mood after drinking, I snuck in the shower with hubby and did oral for a minute, and told him there was more where that came from when he got to the bed, two minutes later he showed up and we played with the rabbit toy and then finished him off with oral, and then rabbit on me again It really felt so spiced up, and didnt think about ttc once while doing it, it was so refreshing!

 

[Marini_Mare]

haha this thread is great! we did it on the stairs last night, almost made it to the bedroom! some reason hubby is a lot more frisky since we decided to stop with the bcp & see "what happens"

 

[wanabeamama]

haha my oh is jelous of viabrators lol but we have an expandable butplug you can also get expandable dildos too he loves being in controll of the pump and it has a relese button so it shrinks again then you can pump it up again a little at a time