Well, my first ultrasound is tomorrow. On the first ultrasound, my midwife gives a vaginal exam and a vaginal ultrasound. I specifically told my DH and MIL two weeks ago when I scheduled the appointment that no one but him and me were going since its so personal. I told my mother the same thing. This morning my DH calls me and asks me if its okay if she comes?! The day before? That's not all either. I'm in the process of completing my degree and I have a full time job. Well, my MIL and my mother both offered to babysit the child everyday while I finish my degree and school. I GREATLY appreciate this, I really do, but my advisor actually helped me get into online classes the whole first year, that way, I wouldn't have to be away from my child ALL day everyday. I told my DH this and instead of being happy he seemed disappointed and said his mom WANTED to watch the baby all day. No, no, no. Nothing would break my heart more than to be away from child that many hours a day. There is also the case where they expect the baby to go to their church and their bible study every Wednesday and Sunday. Personally, I wanted to choose my own church. I don't know. Am I just be hormonal or would you ladies be upset too? If I do have a right to be upset, what should I do? It seems like my DH agrees with everything his mother says. Ah!