Hi all
Well I am turning into a paranoid mum!!!!!!!!
To start with I am constantly checking Gabbi to make sure she's not too hot and has not thrown up and is choking!! I have nightmares about losing her and is now disturbing my sleep which is not good at all.
To make matters worse, a friend of mine has just got a new grand daughter, slightly premature, and the parents woke the other morning and found her blue! She had been sick and her throat had got blocked. She's ok but this has just made me worse, I am constantly on pins!
Then yesterday, I gave Gabbi her bottle (breast feeding and formula at the mo, hope to get back to just breast), an hour later I was holding her on my shoulder and she just threw up, like projectile, thick as had been slightly digested, loads of it and it scared the living daylights out of me. Then again I put her down after making sure she was winded and went to check on her a few mins later and she threw up again, but more liquid as milk not digested properly. OH says I had her on my shoulder too long and the constant pressure on her belly was probably the cause! Could it be??
So that was at 3am. She then woke again at 5am starving, she finally slept at 6.00, but I was awake on and off listening for her throwing up! She woke this morning at 8.30 (so routine well and truly out the window today!) and wouldn't sleep for ages. She had formula, then breast, then formula again all in the space of 2 hours!!! I wonder if I'm feeding her too much, but I don't give into demand feeding unless she is not settling at all.
I keep wondering if my paranoia is down to the fact that I need someone to look at what I'm doing and to tell me that I am doing it all right, that she is dressed well so not too cold or hot, her bedding is correct, she's not too hot, etc etc. My mum is coming over in 2 weeks, so I am hoping that she can put my mind at rest, but it's gonna be a long 2 weeks wait!! Can anyone tell me what Gabbis temperature should be???
Please tell me I'm not the only one who's totally over the top????!!!! OH says it's cause I'm a new mum and want everything to be perfect for Gabbi and want to do a god job, but it's getting worse, I can feel it!!
Thank you in advance for any help girls
Well I am turning into a paranoid mum!!!!!!!!
To start with I am constantly checking Gabbi to make sure she's not too hot and has not thrown up and is choking!! I have nightmares about losing her and is now disturbing my sleep which is not good at all.
To make matters worse, a friend of mine has just got a new grand daughter, slightly premature, and the parents woke the other morning and found her blue! She had been sick and her throat had got blocked. She's ok but this has just made me worse, I am constantly on pins!
Then yesterday, I gave Gabbi her bottle (breast feeding and formula at the mo, hope to get back to just breast), an hour later I was holding her on my shoulder and she just threw up, like projectile, thick as had been slightly digested, loads of it and it scared the living daylights out of me. Then again I put her down after making sure she was winded and went to check on her a few mins later and she threw up again, but more liquid as milk not digested properly. OH says I had her on my shoulder too long and the constant pressure on her belly was probably the cause! Could it be??
So that was at 3am. She then woke again at 5am starving, she finally slept at 6.00, but I was awake on and off listening for her throwing up! She woke this morning at 8.30 (so routine well and truly out the window today!) and wouldn't sleep for ages. She had formula, then breast, then formula again all in the space of 2 hours!!! I wonder if I'm feeding her too much, but I don't give into demand feeding unless she is not settling at all.
I keep wondering if my paranoia is down to the fact that I need someone to look at what I'm doing and to tell me that I am doing it all right, that she is dressed well so not too cold or hot, her bedding is correct, she's not too hot, etc etc. My mum is coming over in 2 weeks, so I am hoping that she can put my mind at rest, but it's gonna be a long 2 weeks wait!! Can anyone tell me what Gabbis temperature should be???
Please tell me I'm not the only one who's totally over the top????!!!! OH says it's cause I'm a new mum and want everything to be perfect for Gabbi and want to do a god job, but it's getting worse, I can feel it!!
Thank you in advance for any help girls