I cant deal with it

[MissRhead]

So FOB is seeing someone eles. We got back together to see if we could work things out and have only been split up a few weeks. I know it shouldnt bother me but i cant cope with it, we where together for quite a long time, and i should be used to it because he cheated on me so many times. But i cant. He hardley sees his son and when hes on leave he should be spending every minute with his son, i know id want to, instead hes going to be with this girl. hes told me hes taking her away when hes back on friday and ive just got to sit here with kam thinking about him their with her at some hotel. I cant do it i just dont know what to do anymore

 

[chels24uk]

ohh huni i went through the exact same thing last year. We split twice and BOTH times he had another girl lined up. He threw away 6 years and a family for no real reason. It was torture but you really do have to do your best not to obsess over it. Hes in a relationship with some other girl he moved over 400miles away to be with now. Ive told him i dont want to know a single thing they do together, i dont even want to hear her name. He respects that and it does help a lot. Just tell him you dont want to know ANYTHING they do together etc, otherwise if he is telling you then your just going to obsess and it is going to hurt so much more. I know its easier said then done, but just try to focus on other things and try not to think of him. In time you'll heal and realise you deserve better xxx

 

[Rhio92]

hun, know the feeling x

 

[MissRhead]

thankyou it hurts so bad, i cant eat or sleep it is like tourture xxx

 

[First.timer]

thankyou it hurts so bad, i cant eat or sleep it is like tourture xxx

I know exactly how you feel,even reading that sentence makes my eyes water. I think all there is to do is ask for support and put effort into it feeling better. it is the worst feeling in the world x x x

 

[young-mummy]

i am the same. i dont want to be with FOB because hes a cheat/liar but i cnt stand seeing him with other girls. ino he would feel the same if i had a new man too but he nows now is not the right time to be looking for a Boyfriend so he happily moves on. i cant wait till its my turn xxx

 

[billy2mm]

its very quick for him to be seeing someone else. tbh i wasnt bothered that my ex had a new girlfriend coz he had her when we were still married while i was pregnant!!

it just shows that you are not over him but it really really is his loss. let them go away to a hotel - you get to sit and look at your beautiful son and cuddle him and play with him and everything wothout having to share him.

more fool him i say!

 

[MissRhead]

Thanks girls! Well ive just today been and had the tattoo i had of his name covered! It hurt like crazy as it was my first big one but thats it, the end of every single bit of hurt (hopefully lol) Ive asked him not to contact me and he hasnt exept yesterday text asking how kam was but i didnt reply!! Im feeling better, alot better than when i wrote this xxx

 

[lal]

Petty but it always made me feel better knowing he would end up treating the new girl just as badly and he did. Hang in there, you and your son are beautiful and he will absolutely regret being such an idiot someday, and it will be too late!