i dont know what to do now. your experiences! 2-3

[kat132]

I got a negative result today and now i am questioning my decision to have a 3rd. It has been on my mind for ages and i think about it all the time. Since getting my negative today i keep asking myself, will i be able to handle it? Can i really afford it? So many questions.

In your experience was it hard going from 2-3? Is it really that much more money a month?

I just don't know what to do now

 

[callmedan]

didnt want to read and run but if its something you want, I say go for it! you will make things work with money

 

[LockandKey]

I would also like to have a good answer for this as well as I am constantly questioning going from 2-3

Hope we get an answer soon ladies

 

[mommyB]

Me too! I want to go from 2 to 3 but hubby worries about cost and such. I like to think kids are only as expensive as you make them. DS2 will hopefully be out of diapers so we will only be buying for 1. I can buy second hand stuff if needed. I'm sure we can make it work. But it can get stressful thinking about it.

 

[stellababy]

following this thread... this is my situation as well-i am getting baby fever when i thought 2 would be it for me

 

[Missy08]

In the same boat as you all...DH & I always planned on 2...now we have 2 girls (6 & 1), but I can't get the thought of having a 3rd & trying for a boy out of my mind....But can handle it (financially & every other way)? I think about going out with 3 or trying to go the store with 3 by myself...would we need a bigger car, etc., etc. I just can't shake the feeling though!

 

[littlesteph]

same here, although we are waiting until 2016 before talking seriously about a 3rd, ours are 19 month and 7 months so a 3rd is out of the question right now, I've just started going back to work and finically we are not in the position to have a 3rd.