i dont wanna wait!!!

[vejables]

6 weeks before dh and i can "ahem"!?!?!?!

don't know why, but i'm feeling the urge to already and it hasn't even been 2 weeks! how will i ever make it? anyone else feel this way? from what i have seen everyone else feels the opposite.

 

[Angel]

I have to admit after having James I have felt very interested even tho I had just had a c-section,I thought I was strange too, but normally I have a very high libido so I just figured it was my libido coming back to normal.Hope the weeks go fast for you

 

[xarlenex]

im exactly the same just now!! and my OH new this and went n got his hair cut the way I love it..all sexxy n stuff..I swear he done it delibrately to make it more difficult for me! lol

 

[snugglemuffin]

feeling the same kinda wierd

 

[Caroline]

We didn't wait 6 weeks

 

[Lucy]

Why do you have to wait 6 wks? I've never heard that before?! After both of my children I was told to resume bedroom activities whenever I felt up to it.....

 

[Simon'sMum]

I would recommend that you keep that fire burning I felt the same way about a week after coming home but followed the Dr.'s instructions to wait 'til the next checkup. We've finally waited too long and now are just too chicken and are afraid that everything will be odd. I'm quite sure you'll know if you should stop. Good luck!

 

[vejables]

ooo really??? any harm that could be done? it's not painful "down there" anymore...

 

[susanneb1984]

When I had Thea, I waited 4 days! lol
With Georgina, it was about 8 weeks!

I was told as long as you feel ok, had a normal birth and have stopped bleeding, if you feel ready then go for it.
They like you to have tried to do something before the 6 week check to make sure everything is working!

BUT remember to use contraceptioN!

 

[anita665]

This hasn't happened to me yet but I remember my friend counting down the days till her stitches came out so she could get back to it!

 

[vejables]

didn't stop bleeding yet... sigh.... when did u ladies stop bleeding?

 

[Mango]

didn't stop bleeding yet... sigh.... when did u ladies stop bleeding?

Looks as though mine has almost stopped now, to the point of where I was thinking that I don't need to wear a pad anymore. Been about 3 weeks now, but I had stitches

 

[vejables]

i had stitches too so i bet i will go for at least another week... sigh... don't know how im gonna survive another week lol

 

[Sarah88]

I've heard bleeding can last months... Is this true? I hate wearing pads, so wearing them for that long is gonna kill me.

 

[Always&4ever]

me and Rich tried after 2 weeks and the condom split on us lol.. just my luck hey!
I am now on the pill and our sex life has gone back to normal, I think its when you feel ready

 

[stephlw25]

me and Rich tried after 2 weeks and the condom split on us lol.. just my luck hey!
I am now on the pill and our sex life has gone back to normal, I think its when you feel ready

Oh thats good to know as we had our babies the same day ! i havent done the deed yet as im too scared its gonna hurt !! even though i do feel like everything is normal down below! better just get brave and do it i think !!! lol

 

[princess2323]

didn't stop bleeding yet... sigh.... when did u ladies stop bleeding?

almost five weeks and still bleeding but light---and seems heavier on some days and when it seems like its gonna stop picks up again--- and oh yeah i got three stitches as well

but ya same here=---waiting for the bleeding to stop first

 

[Kellz]

We've never waited 6 weeks
One of the main reasons is that your cervix is still quite open and thus you are more prone to infection.
But if both you and hubby are fresh and clean from the shower and are both clear of any sti's and completely monogamous then the chances of infection are very very slim.

And yep you need contraception because your hormones make you more fertile after giving birth.

If you feel up to it and hubby is willing to be gentle and uinderstands to stop if you feel any discomfort then go for it, the longer you leave it the harder it gets by all accounts. Just make sure you have plenty of water based lube on hand.

 

[Newt]

whew! it's not just me then?
I am absolutely gagging for it, I missed pre preg sex when my belly did not dictate what was going on and I am so ready to pounce on OH

 

[Jenny]

all I can say is RAWR!

If only this bleeding would stop