I dont want IVF

[Melbram]

Aw Yammas how frustrating - perhaps he's now decided he's not that bothered at the minute just because he hasnt been able to get you pregnant because of his problem. Maybe he thinks when he is determined he will be able to get you pregnant no problem. He may be in denial that there is an issue here and that the older your getting the chances of conceiving start to diminish

 

[Yammas]

Yh that sounds about right its just annoying me not knowing how long its gonna take until hes 'determined' I havent even bothered to ask when that will be because he either wont be able to give a date or willl go back on it when the time comes.

 

[Natashaa1]

Do you mind me asking how old you both are?

 

[Yammas]

ill be 21 and OH will be 24 as of next month so weve still got time but all the experts say that your early 20s are when its easiest to conceive so if were having trouble now its only going to get worse as I get older.

 

[Melbram]

I know its frustrating when you want a baby now and people say you have time because your young but in terms of moving on to IVF if things get to that point, then you do have time to get your head around it because most clinics say you have to be 23 to have it x I thinkg after the age of 28 things start slowing down a little bit x

 

[Yammas]

Yh thats what we were told and 2 or 3 years is a long time to get my head around it but its also a long time to wait although i do appreciate that there are ladies who have waited longer than that. I heard it was after 25 but then i suppose each woman is different.