I feel scared...

[Widger]

... and just want to know if this is normal?

I had my 2nd mc in January (although think now that this was mc number 3) and just had my 2nd AF last week since ERPC. My husband and I got a bit carried away earlier.... one thing led to another .... and realised that this is probably slap bang on ovulation time. We don't appear to have problems conceiving, just clinging on to the little beans.

Anyway, I just feel a little scared. I know that we were going to try after my test results in - due to get my results at the end of April - but what if I get pregnant again and end up with yet another miscarriage to deal with.

Not sure what answers I want really, just wondered if anyone else felt like this when then started trying again... or trying accidentally??

Thanks for reading.

 

[DiddyDons]

I dont have many words but if you do fall pregnant again babe, maybe start taking some asprin straight away to help bean stick xxx

 

[Las78]

Hun, so sorry. I have had one miscarriage and that was hard enough to deal with so I really feel for you having gone through it 2/3 times.

I am scared of falling pregnant too hun so can totally understand how you must be feeling, I would imagine many of us on here feel that way and I think even more so if you've had several losses. I think how you're feeling is normal hun and very understandable.

I'd like to say try and be positive about this hun but I know that isn't easy, all I can say is that I'm sure you will get your sticky bean and I hope it's real soon for you. x

 

[Widger]

Thanks girls, I appreciate your support. I suppose I'm even more scared about the fact I haven't had a child so will I be able to carry a baby at all... this site is great for support xx

 

[Las78]

I'm sure it will work out for you hun. Hopefully the test results in April will give you some answers and help you feel a little less scared. Do let us know how you get on x

 

[Claire788]

Thanks girls, I appreciate your support. I suppose I'm even more scared about the fact I haven't had a child so will I be able to carry a baby at all... this site is great for support xx

I could have written that myself! I'm going to start taking aspirin next time too, Dr said it couldnt hurt, I've just had my 2nd MC and am too totally terrified of getting pregnant again. Its ruined the whole pregnancy thing for me now, as if it get past 7 weeks, i'll be stressing abut 12, then 20, then birth etc etc lol to you, xxx

 

[Eoz]

Hey huns.Just popped in to give you my input.I have sadly lost 9 angel babies.I am also a proud mum of 4! It can be done have faith.Yes it is bloody hard and I never trusted my body and kept doubting myself all the time.I usually relax after 20 weeks as nowadays so much can be done if god forbid things go wrong.Lots of hugs to you and your beanies xx

 

[kermie219]

sorry to go off subject here...but what does asprin do?

 

[DiddyDons]

asprin helps the baby stick a little more and reduce the risk of any complications...

Im not too sure how excatly it helps, but I know alot of people take it after having a few m/c and they go on to have healthy and screaming babies....

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[kermie219]

like regular adult asprin? 2 a day or something? hmmmm next time

 

[toby2]

it's baby asprin,a small dose(75mg) but you really need to check with your dr first as they need to know you are taking it-it effects your blood and it would be really important it was on your record
I have had two m/c in the ast 6 months and am also feeling very scared,scared that there wont be a next time and scared i could m/c again if there is-have decided to just keep going though-good luck!
xx

 

[Widger]

Thanks for your posts, I feel much better. No point worrying about it until something actually happens. When do you start taking aspirin? When you get BFP?