I feel so crap!! Just a rant.

[AmandaBaby]

Bloody hell

Just found out that a friend of mine, who got pregnant COMPLETELY on accident, is having a GIRL! She's getting everything that I want and she didn't even have to work hard to get it If I was still pregnant then it probably wouldn't be so hurtful but since my miscarriage, it just feels like a big kick in the teeth
Why do all these people keep getting pregnant on ACCIDENT when there's so many of us that just want a baby.. and it DOESNT happen!?

What upsets me more though is the fact that i'm getting engaged in like a WEEK and here I am feeling depressed. I know I should be grateful that I was at least able to get pregnant but it's just so upsetting. And I know I should be excited at the fact that i'll be engaged soon but I just feel so empty!!

Here's hoping I get a BFP tomorrow! If not, I GIVE UP! (For the month).

:'(

xx

 

[Platinumvague]

I go through this all the time.Seems like everyone who isn't trying or doesn't want a child has one or what really gets me are people who don't deserve a child.I know its hard.I even tear up when I am around friends who have children.Our day will come.Cheer up! Your very lucky to have someone who loves you dearly and congrats on the engagement! I truely hope you get your BFP

 

[AmandaBaby]

Thank you.
I really hope you get your BFP very soon as well!!
xx

 

[monalisa81]

We've been TTC for 20 cycles, including clomid and IUI's and still nothing.
I know how upsetting it can be when people around you get pregnant on first try or by accident.
But keep in mind that when someone else gets pregnant, it doesn't affect your chances, try not to feel like they're getting what you deserve. When you get things you want in a harder way, you'll be more happy when you get them xx

 

[Arisa]

Bloody hell

Just found out that a friend of mine, who got pregnant COMPLETELY on accident, is having a GIRL! She's getting everything that I want and she didn't even have to work hard to get it If I was still pregnant then it probably wouldn't be so hurtful but since my miscarriage, it just feels like a big kick in the teeth
Why do all these people keep getting pregnant on ACCIDENT when there's so many of us that just want a baby.. and it DOESNT happen!?

What upsets me more though is the fact that i'm getting engaged in like a WEEK and here I am feeling depressed. I know I should be grateful that I was at least able to get pregnant but it's just so upsetting. And I know I should be excited at the fact that i'll be engaged soon but I just feel so empty!!

Here's hoping I get a BFP tomorrow! If not, I GIVE UP! (For the month).

:'(

xx

Sweetie I know EXACTLY how you feel and what you are experiencing right now ans let me inform you its completely normal to feel sad, depressed and the tad bit jealous because you are a woman who is engaged and, with engagement and the promise of marriage comes a life spent together and the desire for children is always there so when you hear for friends who get "knocked up" by accident after either a one nighter or one or two months of non stop unprotected sex you think, why cant it be like that with me?

My friend had an adorable little girl in august and it was not planned and due to multiple partners when she was overseas, so a variety of different sperms and so on but still, she was expecting it and not even interested but now she is an awesome mother and has a girl, which is my dream and my DHs dream too So I hate feeling selfish and jealous of her and my sister who got pregnant and made sure she did not keep it, but they were having sex on an every day to every second day basis for one month and conceived in that month.

All I can offer is support and hugs
The new thing hubby and me are trying since he is now able ejaculate during sex (so we had an issue there for many months now gone
is to have sex every night as sperm does NOT decrease in its velocity or virility, etc the doctor informs me that this is an old wives tale like sitting with a pillow under your bum.

in the old days when couples wanted to conceive they just had sex as many days as possible and surely enough one to two of those days they DTD happened to fall over ovulation

just a tip and something my DH and me are doing this month and next
every day to every second day of sex

go ladies, we can all do this xoxo

 

[AmandaBaby]

Thank you all for the support
Arisa, I try to do that but I slack off and get a bit lazy haha. We always leave it til late and then we both get tired. I'm going to try and make it happen as soon as he gets home from work (or just after) and make sure that we do it every second night. It sounds bad but I think what happens is that we do it every second night at the beginning of the cycle and then once ovulation comes around its like we're too exhausted, so maybe we might try doing it just 2-3 times a week for the first 2 weeks and then every other night from then (I usually have a 45 day cycle). Hopefully we all get a BFP soon!! xx

 

[jaydee79]

aww bless yes iv often felt the same sometimes and there is nothing worse than haven ya nose kinda rubbed in it when someone else is blagging it it seems so unfare and you just feel like you want to shut yaself out away frm the rest of the world and take a moment to your going through emotional ups and downs of it all aint you sweetheart i can relate to that also but sometimes we just gotta bite our bottom lip and take it on the chin which is so hard to deal with keep thinking positive thoughts and dont let the disapointment keep holding you back because there is still hope i will keep my fingers croxxed for you and lots and lots of keep thinking positive and im sure eventually it will come and best wishes to everyone also and keep positive thoughts to mind and wishful hopes fingers croxxed