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Okay!, i know this makes me a bad person but oh..what the hell! Myself and my OH have agreed to TTC #2 this month and what fills so many people with a good buzz of feelings, me im absolutely terrified!! I never thought id get gender disappointment or any sort of swaying for a particular gender! With our son who is now 4, we both wanted a boy! I always told him id express my dislike if it was a girl, but we we're blessed when our sonographer told us we have a boy!
But now my feelings have completely taken a 360 turn! For number 2 i really would love a girl! Its that bad ive been looking online for anyways i can help sway it, the shettles method, everything from diet and eating citrus fruits to change the PH of the vagina to alkaline so it supports the female sperm and kills the male sperm! to sex positions!
and even timing..But whats really scaring me as that nothings guarenteed! I wish there was just some way you can choose your gender, but you cant without thousands of dollars/great british pounds or even the laws against it!
And whats really putting the pressure on is now my OH has now said he would like a daughter too!, im so scared incase we fall and we end up with a boy, its like id be so disappointed and upset as we both agreed 2 kids would be our absolute limit as our finances wouldn't stretch to 3!!..
Im so fearful of everything at the moment, im just hoping and praying that we get lucky like we did the first time!..![nope :nope: :nope:](/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/nope.gif)
But now my feelings have completely taken a 360 turn! For number 2 i really would love a girl! Its that bad ive been looking online for anyways i can help sway it, the shettles method, everything from diet and eating citrus fruits to change the PH of the vagina to alkaline so it supports the female sperm and kills the male sperm! to sex positions!
![Blush :blush: :blush:](/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/blush.gif)
And whats really putting the pressure on is now my OH has now said he would like a daughter too!, im so scared incase we fall and we end up with a boy, its like id be so disappointed and upset as we both agreed 2 kids would be our absolute limit as our finances wouldn't stretch to 3!!..
Im so fearful of everything at the moment, im just hoping and praying that we get lucky like we did the first time!..
![nope :nope: :nope:](/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/nope.gif)