Dona
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Once again I post something that my HV said to me which has upset me to say the least.
I was telling her that I go back to work 3 weeks today and that Archie starts nursery 2 weeks today. Well she begins to tell me that I have a hard few months ahead of me. I asked her to explain why, she begins to tell me about all the viruses that Archie could catch at Nursery and that there are some really bad ones. She then goes on to say 'Never mind though, you do get carers time off work and sometimes even an allowance if he needs to be admitted to hospital'. This is not the first time she's made a comment or statement that's made me wanna punch her lights out. I was OK about the thought of bugs at nursery, I try not to think about them to be fair, but now I am beside myself and thinking am I doing the right thing. Dam HV I really HATE her, last time she said my Archie had a 'premmy head'. How rude does this woman need to be. I think she hates it that I do not need her help, I don't even ask her any questions as I don't respect her at all after what she said before.
For the Mummies that have or have had a prem baby at nursery, are the bugs really bad?
Dona and Archie xxx
I was telling her that I go back to work 3 weeks today and that Archie starts nursery 2 weeks today. Well she begins to tell me that I have a hard few months ahead of me. I asked her to explain why, she begins to tell me about all the viruses that Archie could catch at Nursery and that there are some really bad ones. She then goes on to say 'Never mind though, you do get carers time off work and sometimes even an allowance if he needs to be admitted to hospital'. This is not the first time she's made a comment or statement that's made me wanna punch her lights out. I was OK about the thought of bugs at nursery, I try not to think about them to be fair, but now I am beside myself and thinking am I doing the right thing. Dam HV I really HATE her, last time she said my Archie had a 'premmy head'. How rude does this woman need to be. I think she hates it that I do not need her help, I don't even ask her any questions as I don't respect her at all after what she said before.
For the Mummies that have or have had a prem baby at nursery, are the bugs really bad?
Dona and Archie xxx