I hate when people judge you because of your age..

[jenfirstbaby]

For goodness sake, what a friggin bitch! I'm so glad you said something, I would definitely stand up for my self (and a whole lot more!) if I heard someone say something about me. I don't think I've had any dirty looks etc,. Not that I've noticed anyway.

Some old ladies are lovely,. I've had a few tell me how gorgeous she is etc., U see others and know they don't approve. Funny thing is, back in their day they were popping out 6 or 7 when they were 19/20! Doesn't make sense for them to judge.

I do agree on some teenage mums tho. There are a whole load of girls I went to school with that had kids at the same time,. Most of them do nothing (work wise) and some of them are constantly on fb saying they are on another night out :s who has the kid?!

when we were 15 a girl at school fell pregnant with twins (not planned). Ud think that would put her off, but no. She's not even 23 yet and is pregnant with her 5th,. Unless she's already had him/her,. Haven't heard. She's one of the ones tha doesn't work etc. Jeez. She DOES deserve the looks, imo.

 

[Tilly87]

People are so ignorant! I'm 25 and my 1st child will be 7 in a few wks, people should stop assuming and tarring everyone with the same brush! x

 

[aliss]

I get annoyed with my friends who were teen parents. I'm at home by 7pm tucking in a baby while they are out at dinners/movies lol because their kids are old enough to be at home without a babysitter. There are certainly some pros to being a younger parent!

 

[kmbabycrazy]

I get annoyed with my friends who were teen parents. I'm at home by 7pm tucking in a baby while they are out at dinners/movies lol because their kids are old enough to be at home without a babysitter. There are certainly some pros to being a younger parent!

Haha. My mum is such a lightweight when it comes to drinking. One glass of one and she's tipsy any more and she will be terribly drunk. And it's because she had 5 kids, her first child at 17 and her last at 32 so didn't really have much of a chance to go out drinking until she was in her mid 30s lol.

 

[aliss]

She's got a lot of catching up to do!!! My mom was the same (married at 18) and now she's a party fiend at 51, in fact just married a 27 year old guy LOL, he's younger than me!!!!!!

 

[jenfirstbaby]

I get annoyed with my friends who were teen parents. I'm at home by 7pm tucking in a baby while they are out at dinners/movies lol because their kids are old enough to be at home without a babysitter. There are certainly some pros to being a younger parent!

Haha. My mum is such a lightweight when it comes to drinking. One glass of one and she's tipsy any more and she will be terribly drunk. And it's because she had 5 kids, her first child at 17 and her last at 32 so didn't really have much of a chance to go out drinking until she was in her mid 30s lol.

I wish I was a light weight! I swear I cannot get drunk. One time I had 7 sambucas when I got to a club (after drinking at a friends) and I was so sober I went home coz I was bored :\ that's not normal. I don't even get hang overs lol

Its prob coz we used to drink like a litre of god every weekend when we were about 16 under age dribking was the best! So much better than now

 

[jade1991]

Im also 20, nearly 21. I look my age but my OH is older, I've never had the looks but I had the people coming upto me when I was pregnant saying 'obviously wasnt planned' as if I wasnt happy about it. Well no it wasnt planned but I wouldnt change it for the world! Were all women, we can all have children so we can all look after them, doesnt matter what age you are!

 

[Kyliem87]

You get judged no matter what in life. I'm 24 and get the "disapproving young mam look" at the end of the day what's the 'right' age to have a baby? I want 3 and I need to have suitable fertility time so 24 was right for me. Someone may feel ready younger and that's their choice. All our circumstances are different but one thing is the same - we are fantastic mammy's!

 

[Mummythree]

I agree with you well done for putting her in her place.
i think it rediculous how some people are so rude and would judge anyone for anything. they should mind their own cos im sure theres plenty they could be judged for. x

 

[Linzi_x]

some people in this world are so rude! I am judged all the time because of my age, I'm 20. I just hold my head up high and stay proud because I know im a damn good mother!