i have a fear...

[babydevil1989]

....that were going to go for a scan and there will be nothing there!!
i just dont think i could handle it if that happened :-/

 

[bethneebabe]

Sorry to hear you are so worried! :Hug: It is normal to feel very anxious after a loss. I have had 3 scans and was terrified each time but despite my worry, LO is growing well. It's hard to have faith that everything will be okay but the odds are with you. Good luck.

 

[babydevil1989]

its strange that i feel content except that one thing i think because with my MC scans meant doom and gloom that that is still lingering in the back of my mind x

 

[babydoodle]

This is so normal..thats how im probably going to be as well when i get pregnant agaiin...try to relax chances are that everything is fine this time!!!!Good luck and God Bless!

 

[MamaTex]

A lot of us have that fear. I wish I could give advice on how to not have these feelings, but I don't think it is possible not to have that fear. The more reassurance you get through good scans, the better you feel, but our innocence has been taken away so I don't think there is ever a time when you are not secretly nervous. Hang in there...

 

[bethneebabe]

Having a bad experience can take the joy out of all of your scans for this LO. I know that I am really worried that they won't be able to hear the heartbeat with the Doppler at my appointment on Monday but in the end, there is nothing we can do. Just try and have faith in your LO and yourself that everything will be okay.

 

[hokiemom]

I'm really nervous, too. I go in for my scan on the 15th and I'm so afraid that there will not be a heartbeat. I almost don't want to go to the appt. Good luck. I'll be thinking about you.

 

[maybebaby3]

I paid for early scans as I had 2mc. I couldn't stand waiting for 12 weeks and then finding out something was wrong