I just don't know what to think......please someone help :-( xxx
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Did you do your second CB Digi today hun?????
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Thank you so much girls, I've not posted on here for a couple of days and it really meant the world to see your messages 
Well I done a silly thing last night. Seem to be quite good at that lately (putting everything that doesn't usually live in the fridge away in the fridge.....poor DH he hasn't been able to find anything! :rofl)
I done the test last night after having been for a wee no more than 2hrs beforehand!....It said 1-2 not the 3+ that I'd been hoping for....
Msg Pippin a good friend on here and she said that my wee probably wasn't strong enough. I was devastated and obviously convinced myself that our lil bean has grown wings.
I've had really bad low back pain today and quite bad cramps. The spotting has gone from pink/red to brown thou today. My nipples are still sensitive and my boobs still really tender/sore. A wk and half on from initially starting this thread and the title is still very appropriate!
Do you lovely ladies think I've miscarried....I can handle people saying yes by the way. Or should I still believe that our lil bean is hanging in there? I'm just wishing the next two days away and hopefully I'll be able to get them to scan me on the 29th.
I really need to know one way or the other now.
Thanks so much again girls, I really couldn't have asked for more lovely support rocks
Lisa xxxxx
Well I done a silly thing last night. Seem to be quite good at that lately (putting everything that doesn't usually live in the fridge away in the fridge.....poor DH he hasn't been able to find anything! :rofl)
I done the test last night after having been for a wee no more than 2hrs beforehand!....It said 1-2 not the 3+ that I'd been hoping for....
Msg Pippin a good friend on here and she said that my wee probably wasn't strong enough. I was devastated and obviously convinced myself that our lil bean has grown wings.
I've had really bad low back pain today and quite bad cramps. The spotting has gone from pink/red to brown thou today. My nipples are still sensitive and my boobs still really tender/sore. A wk and half on from initially starting this thread and the title is still very appropriate!
Do you lovely ladies think I've miscarried....I can handle people saying yes by the way. Or should I still believe that our lil bean is hanging in there? I'm just wishing the next two days away and hopefully I'll be able to get them to scan me on the 29th.
I really need to know one way or the other now.
Thanks so much again girls, I really couldn't have asked for more lovely support rocks
Lisa xxxxx
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Well, Lisa - I have no idea what's going on but I sure hop you get your scan on the 29th. Make sure they know about everything and don't understate anything!! Good luck and please let us know.
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If you haven't had heavy bleeding then I would think it's hanging in there and still a threatened miscarriage. But you won't know for sure until they scan you. The fact that you have symptoms and that you're testing positive even later in the day is a fantastic sign. Good luck hun, keep us updated
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Well I sit here and write completely broken hearted.
This morning I started to bleed heavily with lots of large clots and cramps that have been unrelentless throughout the day. Our lil bean has definately grown wings and turned into a precious angel. He/She was so much wanted and loved, it has left me feeling so empty inside and despite having one of the most amazing husbands and family, lonely.
It feels like the tears will never stop, my heart will never stop hurting and my mind will never stop thinking.........For a week and a half I've had warning that this was going to happen.....yet even with all of that I was completely unprepared for how I'd truly feel.
I would just like to thank-you all from the bottom of my heart for the support and understanding over the past week and a half..........You really are amazing women that are doing their angels so proud! Love to all and thankyou again
Lisa xxxxxx
This morning I started to bleed heavily with lots of large clots and cramps that have been unrelentless throughout the day. Our lil bean has definately grown wings and turned into a precious angel. He/She was so much wanted and loved, it has left me feeling so empty inside and despite having one of the most amazing husbands and family, lonely.
It feels like the tears will never stop, my heart will never stop hurting and my mind will never stop thinking.........For a week and a half I've had warning that this was going to happen.....yet even with all of that I was completely unprepared for how I'd truly feel.
I would just like to thank-you all from the bottom of my heart for the support and understanding over the past week and a half..........You really are amazing women that are doing their angels so proud! Love to all and thankyou again
Lisa xxxxxx
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Lisa, I am so sorry! I've been there and understand how devastating it is to lose a baby, no matter how early in the pregnancy.
Know that we are all here for you and don't mind if you post whenever you are feeling sad or lost.
I've been there and understand how devastating it is to lose a baby, no matter how early in the pregnancy.Know that we are all here for you and don't mind if you post whenever you are feeling sad or lost.
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Sorry that this has happened to you.
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Thanks so much girls!
Well if I put eye make-up on I think I'd get the starring role in a horror movie....without even auditioning!
I do feel a little better today thou. I guess I just hope that everything ended a wk and a half ago before the little heart started beating and therefore never really died.
I know it's very early to be thinking about all this but did any of you go straight back to ttc afterwards. I've started charting my temp again this morning just to see what is happening (medical nerd in me coming out
). DH and I cuddled up last night and I happened to ask him when he'd like to try again and he said straight away.....I don't know how I feel about it yet.
Just a couple more questions.....Sorry girls......
When you had heavy bleeding how long did it roughly last and did any of you use tampons during that time?.....Something else I feel a bit weird about doing at the moment but really the flow could do with one.
Hope you're all doing ok my sweethearts, I really can't thank you all enough
Well if I put eye make-up on I think I'd get the starring role in a horror movie....without even auditioning!
I do feel a little better today thou. I guess I just hope that everything ended a wk and a half ago before the little heart started beating and therefore never really died.
I know it's very early to be thinking about all this but did any of you go straight back to ttc afterwards. I've started charting my temp again this morning just to see what is happening (medical nerd in me coming out
). DH and I cuddled up last night and I happened to ask him when he'd like to try again and he said straight away.....I don't know how I feel about it yet.Just a couple more questions.....Sorry girls
......When you had heavy bleeding how long did it roughly last and did any of you use tampons during that time?.....Something else I feel a bit weird about doing at the moment but really the flow could do with one.
Hope you're all doing ok my sweethearts, I really can't thank you all enough
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I think with an early miscarriage they sometimes tell you to wait one cycle, but the only reason I've heard for that is that it's easier to date. If you're taking your temps you should be able to see when you ovulate and then you can date it accurately anyway.
When I miscarried my bleeding was much lighter than normal (I think that's unusual) and it only lasted a few days, so sorry I can't help you there, but I've read that tampons shouldn't be used when you're miscarrying because it obstructs the flow and could cause a serious infection.
Hope you're ok hun. I know nothing I say right now will make it better, but it really does get easier with time
When I miscarried my bleeding was much lighter than normal (I think that's unusual) and it only lasted a few days, so sorry I can't help you there, but I've read that tampons shouldn't be used when you're miscarrying because it obstructs the flow and could cause a serious infection.
Hope you're ok hun. I know nothing I say right now will make it better, but it really does get easier with time
