I need a hug

[Sarah345]

I'm sorry but I need to have a little cry on here. My AF has just come and I feel so sad. I was so so hopeful and it's broken my heart.

I can't complain as I have 2 gorgeous children already but we desperately want a third to feel complete. I had miscarriage in August and have been trying since then but no luck. It's so hard for me as I've always got pregnant first time. I've been pg 4 times but lost two. But every time I have fallen pregnant first time of trying. But this time round I keep getting BFN and I don't know why. It's always been so easy for us until now. I know 4 months of trying isn't long but it feels it and I'm 38 and just don't think number 3 will come. I'm so sad. I'm worried my last d&c in August has damaged me.

Sorry about the moan but I'm just having a cry. My hubby is away and I feel miserable.

Thanks girls.

 

[Ltweety]

:First of all, I'm sorry about your MC. It is really hard. I'm 32 but do understand the pressure you are feeling. My DH is 47! Are you taking any supplements to boost fertility? Probably since it was easy for you to fall pregnant you haven't done a lot of research on it? Big hugs and let me know if I can help with any suggestions on supplements. I finally went to see a naturopath this summer and am so glad i did!

 

[Sarah345]

Hi Ltweety

I am taking some supplements but I'd love to know if I should take anything else. I'm taking Angus cactus, EPO up to point of ovulation and B6. Anything else you should suggest?

I'm considering getting some preseed gel which I've read about on various chat sites but I'm not sure yet.

I'm sure stress has a lot to do with it. I've a lot going on at the moment and it's hard to not stress!

 

[Trying4first1]

So sorry for your loss. I have been the same today crying and feel hopeless.
I also had a D&C back in April and no BFP since. My last two pregnancies only took me 3-4 months to conceive now 8 months and nothing. I said to hubby that We fell pregnant twice in 7 months now 8 months and nothing? I also worry that the D&C has caused damage. I regret having it so much.

It hurts as I should of been a mum by now and nearly a year and a half later we are exactly in the same place. I know it's not long compared to what others go through but it is starting to get frustrating.

On the vits side of things I take D3 and hubby takes zinc. Maybe that is worth a go? Also omega 3. It's has increased my CM loads. We also use pre seed

 

[Ltweety]

I take EPO, Vitanica Pregnancy Prep (I got pregnant second cycle both times I used this-available on Amazon), prenatals (Thorne brand), natural progesterone cream after ovulation-because it can't hurt and I had an early MC 9 mos ago-brand Progestacare (also available on Amazon), and I used preseed last time because I don't get EWCM just watery. I got pregnant my first cycle using preseed. I'm also taking a thyroid system support supplement by Thorne, which has increased my bbt overall. I run from 96.8 pre O to 97.8 post O. The cycle I got pregnant I was 97.2 to 98.2 (I use OPK's and temp). Phew...that sounds like a lot

Right now I'm waiting for my first period after being treated with methotrexate for my ectopic in October.

 

[lilmisscaviar]

I can completely understand how you're feeling and I offer you all the in the world!

I'm in a very similar position. I'm currently ttc my third child after two beautiful children (1 girl, 1 boy) and three back to back losses. I feel thankful that I have them, especially since I have not been able to get pregnant ever since. My first two losses were D&Cs. Sometimes I wondered if I hurried into the decision of a D&C too quickly and now I regret just not letting things pan out naturally because I've been having a lot of pressure/cervix pain since. Anyways after the D&Cs I became pregnant right away. My third loss was a mmc which I let run its course and finally lost everything naturally in July.

It is hard because I have been suffering from secondary infertility ever since. I have been unable to become pregnant after four cycles. It is aggravating because I was so fertile before (my DS was actually conceived while on BC) and now we're running out of time, age wise. I've been to the doctor who won't prescribe me Clomid until after a year of trying, but she is going by my last miscarriage in July, not by when we actually started ttc back in September of 2014.

I know exactly where you're coming from and again many to you!

 

[Ltweety]

lilmisscaviar
Have you considered using a product like vitex, or a fertility blend like I use called Vitanica Pregnancy Prep? It helps to regulate your cycles and return everything back to normal...my naturopath put me on it. I really like it.

 

[JasmineFrame]

I'm sorry but I need to have a little cry on here. My AF has just come and I feel so sad. I was so so hopeful and it's broken my heart.

I can't complain as I have 2 gorgeous children already but we desperately want a third to feel complete. I had miscarriage in August and have been trying since then but no luck. It's so hard for me as I've always got pregnant first time. I've been pg 4 times but lost two. But every time I have fallen pregnant first time of trying. But this time round I keep getting BFN and I don't know why. It's always been so easy for us until now. I know 4 months of trying isn't long but it feels it and I'm 38 and just don't think number 3 will come. I'm so sad. I'm worried my last d&c in August has damaged me.

Sorry about the moan but I'm just having a cry. My hubby is away and I feel miserable.

Thanks girls.

Im literally in the same boat as you I had an D&C in August got my first AF after my D&C in Oct so now into November no cycle again and all BFN im very frustrated and I had an emotional break down on Tuesday im not understanding my body isn't working how its suppose to.

 

[sarasara]

Hi girls, could you help ur body- just think positively, believe and feel yr happy. Yr body will thank you for it. Warm hug from me

 

[lilesMom]

Huge hugs xxx