I Need A Man!

[bloodbinds]

I've been single since August and though LO is only 7 weeks old, and i don't even feel ready to have sex yet, i still feel as if i need a man!

I miss the cuddles, the attention, the excitement of dating! Those first kisses, secret glances, hidden smiles - i want it!


But where do i find a man?


And how will i find one that wants to date a girl who gave birth 7 weeks ago? Lol.

 

[expecting09]

I need a man too! Mostly to do night feeds though

Order some takeaways, thats how I found one, although he is SOOO not my type. I ordered chinese back in July time, and got a phone call the other day from the delivery guy wanting to take me out

I know what you mean about the attention, cuddles, kissing. Especially when its weather like this, I want a nice bloke to cuddle on the sofa, under a duvet, watching a film stuffing our faces with chocolate.

 

[honey08]

men dont do the night feeds

i need one to

 

[nievesmama]

Me to.
I get so lonely, especially when the kids are in bed.
I miss having someone to cuddle up to watching dvds on sofa, and just the cuddles and kisses in general.
I was considering joining an online dating but knowing my luck id get the oddballs
Plus im of the opinion any bloke would run a mile,,i have 3 kids and cant have any more.
But i never know Mr Right may be out there somewhere. Hope we all find a decent one some point in 2010

 

[Foxxy]

Yeah i know what u mean...that's actually i missed most of all being single mum...
All these cuddles, kisses, care at the very end and support...
So i actually also want Mr. Right as neivesmama said and not just someone to be with. And i'm sure as long as we believe in it it will happened. Sooner or later. Just keep ur mind open

 

[xJG30]

You should never Need a man.. Enjoy your time with your lo's

 

[sweetlullaby]

I dont want one. lol

Maybe at some point il decide im lonely that i miss the comforts and feel i want to meet mr right etc but for the minutei see them as too much hassle and im happy and content with my LO.

I can see myself being a lonely old single lady all my life Nah im kidding...just a man is the last thing on my mind lol

 

[louise85]

I can't see myself with anyone else now. I think I've completely lost my faith this time.

I know what you mean about the cuddling tho I miss that too.

I suppose u never know whats round the corner.

 

[mummy3]

I gave up looking after my first oh left. it was just me and my little girl then I upped and moved uni and met my current oh in starbucks as my lo was lifting up my top asking for booby
Anyhoo, just relax, and keep your options open, as for sure there is a guy out there. I never would have expected it in a million years and im so in love now with another 2 kids

However I did have some bad experiences, some men just cannot handle the thought of a baby/lo dont take this personally, they are just not mature.
Also some men seem to thing single women are cheap my advice if you find a keeper is to make him wait a bit, I made my now husband wait and earned his respect.

 

[DizzyMoo]

I can't see myself with anyone else now. I think I've completely lost my faith this time.

I know what you mean about the cuddling tho I miss that too.

I suppose u never know whats round the corner.

*nods* I'm with you on this one.

Before i met the ex i was having a bit of a fling with a local lad (sean) i'd known & liked for a long time. I ended fling, then I met the now ex, got pregnant & there departed the ex .. anyhoo said fling now wants to give us another go or so he says but as a couple & not a fling... Once upon a day i'd of jumped at it i really did like him & still do, but the ex has now completely destroyed my faith & trust in men. As much as i miss having someone here to cuddle up to, talk to & share crappy films with, & crazy enough cook for .. When sean asks to come round as much as i want to say yes i just cant, im not putting josh through it again, & i seriously just couldn't handle being hurt again. I just have no trust in men at all & not that i want to stay on my own coz i hate it, but its easier, less hurtful to just say no & stay single.
I have my boys & thats how it'll have to stay.

 

[purpledahlia]

I dont feel the need to have a man yet, BUT i do really miss the cuddles, hand holding, hugs, snuggling up on sofa etc. just the companionship..

 

[Katieeeee]

SIGH I want a man I don't need one, but I would really like one.

I've been trying online dating sites and all I get is WEIRDOS so I give up on that one.

I'll just put my faith in the saying "they come along when you're not looking" and concentrate on losing the lard for now!

 

[sweetlullaby]

Its weird....for everything i say about not missing anything etc. I was out for a few hours last night at a "school reunion" type thing and got a massive hug off a really old friend.....dont feel anything for him lol....but it was nice and warm just getting a geniune cuddle. So yup i miss getting a nice warm cosy hug!

 

[x-MummyToBe-x]

I feel the same way i would really like to settle down have a nice little family for my daughter but i have no luck what so ever where i live lol its not a very big place and mostly its full of idiots the lads anyways.. and i dont really think anyone would be attracted to me right now i look ew atm so im just gonna lose the baby weight then try looking around for someone who isnt a arse!

good luck to you all

xx

 

[Singl3Daddy]

lol to all the comments.

i know almost need a man myself LMAO.

jokes

i think i need a REAL woman this time

 

[Jkelmum]

lol to all the comments.

i know almost need a man myself LMAO.

jokes

i think i need a REAL woman this time

your aviator is lovely ..

to all of you i was single parent for 7 yrs and now have been married for 2 yrs it can happen have faith xxx

 

[Singl3Daddy]

lol to all the comments.

i know almost need a man myself LMAO.

jokes

i think i need a REAL woman this time

your aviator is lovely ..

to all of you i was single parent for 7 yrs and now have been married for 2 yrs it can happen have faith xxx

How about telling us how it happened and everything else.