I need advice.

[CrissixBabyx0]

okay. my name is crystal. i just turned 20. so not exactly a teen. but my boyfriend and i have been talking about having a baby four the past two months. every timd i brought it up he usually said no so i didnt get my hopes up. ivd gotten pregnant three times before and every time have had a miscarriage. i still live with my parents and they hate my boyfriend and they are highly against me having a baby with anyone. i want a baby though. i have since i was 17. well the other day my boyfriend and i had unprotected sex and im not sure if im pregnant or not. i dont have a parental figure i can talk to but now im starting to feel that im not ready for a baby. i need help..

 

[xx~Lor~xx]

No one can tell you if you are or aren't pregnant here I'm afraid, and this section is only for those who know they are pregnant, so I will pre warn that this thread is likely to be locked.

I know how you feel about wanting a child, but being very straight forward and to the point, it doesn't sound like this is the 'right time' for you. Both you and your partner need to be wanting and ready to have a child, otherwise you will just end up with him resenting you and you being a single mother, which I'm sure you don't want. Babies are HUGE strain on a relationship. Speaking as a woman who chose to have her first at a young age, we conceived our daughter when I was 17, BUT it was something we had talked about, we were both working and had our own place. As hard as it is, you need to take some time to e yourself in a place where you can afford to support another human being, and yourselves.

I hope this helps and you don't feel like I being too harsh

 

[lizmageeful]

Since you arnt sure if you're pregnant, this thread will probably get locked. I would recommend taking a test if you arn't sure.

 

[xx~Lor~xx]

Just re read and saw you saying you might not be ready now you think you might be. Face that as it comes, if you are, then you and your boyfriend need to get your arses in gear and sort yourselves out, good luck hun.

 

[ClairAye]

This will get locked sorry
Wait a couple of weeks and test, I hope you get the result you are looking for, the doctor will be full of useful advice if you are, good luck!

 

[AP]

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